My boyfriend decided we should go seperate ways for no apperente reason,I still don't why he decided that; we had something beautiful going on.What should I do to forget him..
2006-06-26 09:59:46 · 5 answers · asked by DiamondsR4grls 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What might be beautiful for you might not be for him. Separation is a fact of life, and if it's your first time experiencing it, it really hurts. Do not try to change him, because it will just put greater distance between the two of you. If it's over, you have to take it as a learning experience, and don't go around asking yourself "what did I do wrong?"
To forget him, I'd say spend time with those you love like family and friends. Do something with them. It's summer, so there's a lot of options. Have fun, and allow yourself time to heal.
2006-06-26 10:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ninjaso7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no reason for this decision that you are aware of, then you need to act like it doesn't bother you. I know it will be really hard to not crawl crying. I know that when you love some one, it's hard to just let go. But when you act desperate and needy, it will push a guy further and further away. So try and make yourself act like you are totally fine with this decision. If he calls or visits, act like you are busy. He will then wonder why you aren't crawling back, and why you aren't showing that you care. Then he will be re thinking his decision. No matter what you do, you don't want to be with someone who isn't sure that they want you. You should tell him those words exactly, and leave him with just that. Good luck...
2006-06-26 10:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sad that ur straight away thinking of ways to forget him ... When u tell u had something beautiful that u guys shared and now not in order ... dosen't mean u should call it off...
Talk through whatever it maybe ... don't let off something thats so beautiful and regret later.
Good Luck
2006-06-26 10:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by lonestar (kay) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with him. Tell him how you feel and ask him some questions. Ask him why he thinks that you guys should be seperate and how he feel about it. Tell him to be serious.
2006-06-26 10:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, that's all that will truly help.
2006-06-26 10:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋