alright my girlfriend says that she loves me more and misses me more and that she always feels empty and lonely when i'm not there and she always wants me there and i feel the same about her but then she'll let a day go by without calling or she wont call back and i call her. and i feel that if she really thinks about me all the time like she says she does then she wouldnt forget to call. i 'm just wondering do you really think she loves me as much as she says she does or not at all. or i'm i just being shelfish.
2006-06-26 09:40:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions speak louder than words.
2006-06-26 09:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by mtv8r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion she is not all that into you if she can't remember to call you or return your calls at the very least. Being a women if I am really into the person I am dating I will not let them think that I have forgotten them no mater what or they might move on. Now there are cases were the man just gets a little out of hand calling all the time and so and then you have to kind of put them in their place by letting them know you have a life outside of them.
2006-06-26 09:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband works out of town and is gone for a couple weeks at a time, and I miss him terribly, but sometimes, I just get busy doing other things and I forget to call. It's not that I don't miss him or love him, it's just that I get caught up in other things. I try to keep myself busy doing things so I don't miss him as much. Plus you are sitting around thinking and worrying to much about it. DON"T she loves you and it's not that she's not thinking of you. Just ask her if she will please call you sometime during the day just so you can hear her voice, but don't expect her to call you 10 times a day! becuase that does get a little bugging! Good luck and don't stress!!!
2006-06-26 09:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by nalerij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not being selfish, but do seem a little insecure. I think about my boyfriend all the time, and I love him like crazy, but I rarely call him- I just don't like phones. Try to stop worrying so much. :)
As they say, trust her until she gives you a reason not to. Good luck!
2006-06-26 09:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe she is testing you to see if you feel as much for her as she does for you. She wants to see you put as much effort into the relationship. Also, sometimes she might feel like the relationship is so strong, you don't have to talk every day to know that you love each other.
2006-06-26 09:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♥<ŦĦØΛ>♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur being too conclusive on things...
What if she dosen't call for a day ?? End of World ??
Think for urself... Don't over-do things might cause ending up in a ditch.
If u think she a trustworthy person BELIEVE her !
2006-06-26 09:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by lonestar (kay) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance saysthe same crap you are saying. Give her time to miss you. My God. I love my fiance, and I miss him when we are apart but we are together enough to where we should be able to go a few hours at least with out a conversation. DON'T Smother Her.
2006-06-26 09:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by ladyjno7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking she just needs some space, you don't need to see each other every day! Absense makes the heart grow fonder you know!
She probably loves u alot, so don't worry abt this!
2006-06-26 09:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by lil_miz_korey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves you but I think she doesn't want to look desperate or she's just being thoughtful and giving you a little space
2006-06-26 09:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could very well miss you like she says she does, but maybe she too is feeling like maybe shes overwhelming you and doesn't know whow to react to that. Therefore gets embarrased to call you? Don't know if that helped.
2006-06-26 09:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋