Is it more sad to loss your father or mother? Why?

Answer 1

It seems to depend on which parent you are closer to. In my case, I miss my mother tremendously. A friend who was very close to her father has experienced the same sense of tremendous loss with him.

Answer 2

ITS EQUALLY HARD TO LOOSE EITHER ONE.
I lost my father last year to cardiopulmonary failure i have not recovered yet from sadness about it.
My mom is getting there by great strides. She is dieing and its killing me too. And i dont live in same country anymore as I live here in USA.

If there are personal issues with one parent, you may think that it will be less difficult to grief over a parent, reality is different when they die.
I LOVE BOTH MY PARENTS NO MATTER WHAT THEY DID AS MISTAKES. AND EQUALLY I GREIVE ABOUT THEIR DEATH.

Some children are closer to their mom or dad and may feel different while they are alive about thsi question you asked. But unless you have abusive parents or a different issue going on, thus a personal love for only one parent it can happen. One parent can be a total jerk and you may find it hard to be close to. Yet the final countdown if you have been with both of them for a long time you will miss both just the same.

Answer 3

Depends on the bond that is formed with the child. But I think for the people who are saying one or the other, that's wrong. How would we feel if a parent asked is it more of a loss to lose your first or your last born child? If you have both parents on your life and you they are both positively active in your life you should value them just the same.

Answer 4

I think it depends greatly on who you may be more close to. I am much closer to my father than my mother for some reason, so (as morbid as it sounds) I think I will have a much harder time when my dad passes away than when my mom does. Some people weren't raised by both parents, so it would probably be harder to lose the one who played the largest role in your life.

Answer 5

It depends partly on which you are closer to. For me it was my Dad. For a lot of people the grieving process is complicated by unfinished business. I have an acquaintance who was very traumatized by the death of her father, in spite of the fact, but really because of the fact, that they hadn't spoken in years. She realized after he died that she would never have a chance to make up with him and she realized that what they had been fighting about really wasn't that important. That was sad.

Answer 6

WELL...my parents are split up and I live with my mom...i could not imagine my life without her...she i my everything and I am mortified to even think that anything bed could ver happen to her...my dad hasn't been a part of me and my bros life since he left so you can guess my answer....losing either one would be devastating because both would be a loss...my dad a huge loss because i never really got to know him and my mom because i know her inside out...i would definitely miss my mom more though.....

Answer 7

Depends on who you are closer two. My mom was basically my mother and my father both and she was the greatest mom I could ever have and I miss her more than anything since she died (one year ago), my dad died 12 years ago and I don't even remember sheading a tear.

Answer 8

Personally for me, it would be more sad to loose my mother, because she has always been there for me.

I can't said that I would be too terribly crushed to loose either my father or step-dad...Neither have been very father-like to me.

Answer 9

I'd have to say both but thats just me I love my parents dearly my dad smokes and is a diabetic but I love my mom so much if I lost her I'd be MORE sad I guess shes loving but my dadf really understands me lol

Answer 10

It is harder to lose a father because u feel like u have no one to protect u anymore because u don't have a father figure to look up to no more