It embarrased me, what does that say about my ex ???? she had an affair and she wanted the divorce. She got what she wanted
2006-06-26 09:19:23 · 12 answers · asked by christsluv4u 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
youll learn that what she thinks doesnt matter and beleive me it really dont if she's acting like that.. sounds like she's trying to embarass you or make you feel inadequate in some way i know its hard to do but the very best thing to do is just ignore her also when she's going to be at the same game as your daughter just act as if she doesnt even exist maybe sit on the opposite end of the bleachers or stand as far away from her as possible dont even speak to her if she's going to act in such a childish manner and let her know that you are there to support your daughter and as long as she's going to keep acting like a child then you have nothing to say to her
2006-06-26 09:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that is how she and her friends are...best that she is gone for you. As for making such a seemingly childish and petty display at your daughters softball game....that is down right immature and rude on their behalf. Although it embarrassed you...get over it...but next time don't take it...or let them know that when attending events for/with your daughter that you will not tolerate that kind of behaviour.....it puts strain on the child enough that the parents are divorced...they don't need to have such immature tactics and displays as well. If your ex is at all a caring parent...she should at least concur with this. If not...as hard as it seems don't go if she is there...or make sure to keep a distance. Depending on the age of your daughter you can also explain, nicely why you are standing off to the side, or have missed a event because you are not comfortable with her mothers demeanour around you. You will be surprised how much children can understand and the difference it can make. Just don't put up with it...in a nice and non threatening way and you should do fine. Just be glad to be away from such immature person that your ex seems to be and be there as much as you can for your daughter.
2006-07-03 16:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by toe_roper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. I bet she tells a much different story. Hold ON!. There are two sides to every story. I would say that I would probably not like her, if I were there. Look, after five years divorced, me and my ex get along pretty good now, considering. Just leave it alone, walk away, and deal with it for your children's sake. I've never said anything bad about my ex anywhere near my son's hearing, but he's said things she said about what I was doing. Doesn't matter, walk away from that, or the ugliness will really begin and who will be the real hurt party or parties?
2006-06-26 16:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by obitdude2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just proves that your ex wife is still an inmature child at heart and needs to learn how to grow up. Just let it slide off your back like a duck in the water. If it happens again tell her she's inmature and you don't appreciate it. If she tries to fight with you, just walk away for your Daughter's sake.
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2006-07-03 20:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mango Monkee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex's have a tendency to act like that, so I'm not at all surprised. It takes maturity to keep ones mouth shut and ones feelings to ones self! She and her pal sound like a toxic pair. Water seeks its own level, as they say. Just stay away from them as much as possible and move on with your life. Some people never change....lesson learned!
2006-06-26 16:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously you are a lot better off without her. Just do your best to teach your daughter that type of behavior is wrong.
A good response to an insult is something like "I'm really sorry to see you have to stoop so low to bring yourself up. I really do pity you."
2006-06-26 16:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by innocence faded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you are out of that! ! !
Be a gentleman around your daughter and treat your ex good around your daughter, it will be better for your daughter in the long run.
Complain about your ex here on Yahoo and we will all listen to you!
2006-06-26 16:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And let me guess,she still wants some money for being married to you.Skanks are crazy man,just move on,keep your head up.She will get whats coming to her.
2006-06-26 16:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by jarbowski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show up the next baseball game with a gorgeous sexy woman.
That'll give her something to talk about.
Just kidding, kind of.
2006-06-26 20:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by You got Moxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are people in the world who enjoy making fun of others because it makes them feel better. their lives have to be very dull if they have nothing better to do or talk about then you. call them on it
2006-06-26 16:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by cuttieg1rl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋