My boyfriend wanted to have a threesome to fulfil his fantasy, so I did it for him twice. But he continues to ask for another, and a way for me to get him in the mood is to talk about having a threesome. While we are having sex a way for him to get off is to beg me to have another threesome.Does this mean one woman is not enough for him? Or what I have to offer isn't good enough and that is way he always wants to have another threesome?
2006-06-26 09:13:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said he is your boyfriend. A boyfriend that cannot maintain his commitment towards you now, will definitely not have any form respect for you later either in the relationship or in marriage. To tell you the truth, he is just using you. A man always wanting a threesome has misplaced priorities, he lacks the will to make any commitment to you or anyone. My advise to you is that you leave him and look for another boyfriend.
2006-06-26 09:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Murphy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A threesome is a fantasy for most men. Once he convinces you to give in, he will continue to want the threesome. You saying no is a challenge and he has probably convinces himself he can break you down again. It doesn't mean that you are not enough woman, it means he is very selfish. Maybe you should tell him sure you'll have a threesome but, this time it needs to be another man and see how he responds (make sure you know this man really cares for you because most men want a threesome but fall apart when it comes to the idea of another man touching their woman). Find out how he felt when you asked him about another man and let him know how you feel about him going overboard with the threesome idea. If he cars, he'll stop; if he persist, you need to move on.
2006-06-26 09:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by tdoll7777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did it twice and he still wants another?! Honey, you are a GREAT girlfriend to give him two threesomes. He seems to be a bit greedy, like he might be taking advantage of you. You need to talk to him and make sure that he's only into you. He might not be ready for a long term commitment. Don't let him use you to fulfill his fantasies!
2006-06-26 09:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess he wants another woman for threesome and not another man.
Simply call him and tell "Honey, I am ALSO in mood of threesome and I have a sexy man in my mind, I guess he must have a huge ***C***, let's make a threesome with him"
End of the story, I can bet $1 that he will never ask you for threesome..........try it out buddy !!
2006-06-26 09:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by X P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to delve into the psychology behind this, because that will not only complicate matters but it would be an entirely moot point.
The bottom line is this: Does the prospect of a threesome make you uncomfortable? If yes--tell him. If he persists on asking even though it makes you uncomfortable, that says something: It says he places his happiness above yours.
There are 6 billion people on earth. There is no good reason for you to make concessions like that for his account. If the relationship makes you uncomfortable, bail out and search for someone whose interests are more in line with your own.
2006-06-26 09:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be his way of getting more, with out actually cheating, ,, because u know about it , next, time he brings it up , y dont u say sure but this time lets have a threesome with a guy instead, and see if he is as eager to go for it , if hes says no or accuces u of wanting another man , then let him know that is how u feel when he asks for another women, ,, though if hees says yes then u know it is just for ur enjoyment and nothing more, maybe u could alternate bck and forth
2006-06-26 09:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be his desire to see you with another woman and you pleasing each other. It doesn't necessarily mean that you're not enough for him he's just aroused with 2 women and he just happens to be in the middle of it. It's exciting to him.
Ask him to have a threesome with you and another guy and see how he reacts.
2006-06-26 09:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey honestly loose the boyfriend! from expirience, it has nothing to do with you, its him....he wants his cake and eats it too, and he knows your gonna let him get away with it. Threesomes are not for serious relationships, and wether it was with a male or female having the three some with you, doesnt that make you upset that your boyfriends allowing you to be with someone else right in front of him>??? I knwo just the thought of my boyfriend with another girl would break my heart and he knows that and never would do it,....and what makes you think if hes allowed to do it right in front of you that he wont do it behind your back.....with or without your permission no boyfriend should want to be with another woman...... leave him for your sake!
2006-06-26 09:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'd like a threesome also, but with 2 guys and you and see how he responds.
He is using you.
2006-06-26 09:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Bors 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it means u arent good enough hes just addicted to them for some reason. maybe u should tell him that u all can have a threesome every three months(if u liked it) he might stop asking for them if he knows that he will get one soon
if he doesnt want to settle for that you just may have to kick him to the curb
2006-06-26 09:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by the brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋