I am involved with a guy long distance, i decided to visit him and showed up . His reaction was not what i expected. I found out he had a cell phone (which i did not know about ) i did not spend the night at his place. The next day he showed up in the afternoon to my hotel, we went out to a club but the "vibe" was different. We talked about our relationship and he stated that he is confused about everything and called it quits for "now" . The next day when i came home, he called and said he made a mistake and did not know why he said that to me and changed his mind. At this point i DO NOT KNOW what to do. Please don't be judgemental. I just need input on what i should do?????
2006-06-26 09:02:28 · 9 answers · asked by leowings6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe the guy is married or into another real life relationship and he hasn't told you?
he seems really sneaky, beware.
2006-06-26 09:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the signs are in your face!!! he is doing what ever he wants to do and with who ever. dump him, he is playing games with you.
He didn't like the fact that you came and invaded/ rain on his parade. though you stayed in a hotel you was still around and not miles away how he like it. why would he want his girl to stay at his place? why does he has a cell that you don't know about unless he is a dealer or plain ole traditional distraction another women. all of this don't sound right.he is doing something that is no good he is hiding something from you.
sounds like he cheating, LEAVE HIM ALONE HE IS TROUBLE!!!
2006-06-26 16:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk it out...if it is worth it too you. If not move on. Sometimes people say things when they are surprised. The cell phone thing would make me wonder though. If I were you I would check his call history, but that is just me...lol Good Luck!!
2006-06-26 16:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by lissad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go back. To bad for him. Move on. Let him come to you if you want, but I wouldnt bother. It sounds like he is seeing someone else. He didnt stay with you that night. No way, dump him. Sorry, but find someone who will be happy when they see you at the door.
2006-06-26 16:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by ms.mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Footy 100%
2006-06-26 16:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by joey_ploof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was into you, he would have been happy to see you.
He changed his mind, why? Did someone else dump him, and now you look pretty good? Lose him. There is someone better for you.
2006-06-26 16:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy obviously has some issues
he doesn't know where is head is right now
tell him that he should settle things out and then come back and find you if he still loves you
GOOD LUCK
2006-06-26 16:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with pooty. jking
2006-06-26 16:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by capitalistic_js 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother with him - he doesn't know what he wants, find someone that does.
2006-06-26 16:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Footy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋