Seems like since we have moved in we are less in doing things and especially the sexis down. Is this typical when you move in with someone? As for the sex, it just sucks and needs to get better
2006-06-26 08:56:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This happened when me and my boyfriend first moved in together. No one is to blame, you are just getting used to seeing sides of eachother you hadn't before.(you are prob both driving each ohter a little crazy, right? ) And now that you living together its not like you come over for a few hrs and she devotes all her attention to you and then you go home. You both have to get used to not always being in the center of each others attention. As for the sex, if you see each other everyday she doesn't have to worry about the next time she is going to get it.. so it becomes less of a priority.... It will get better in time ..give it a month or 2..... if it doesn't I'd definately bring it up to her.. just dont place any blame... good luck and I hope it works out for you :)
2006-06-26 09:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by emeralds821 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through the same thing and its hard its like your waiting for that special soething to happen to at least change things back the way it USE to be. alot of times its just we are so assured and yake for granted that the other is there all the time so we dont put as much into it anymore. maybe you could just start living together only on the weekends, or the weekdays whichever fits better and then you will want to be with eachother when you are. we seem to settle into a routine when we move in together.
2006-06-27 08:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by chatterbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that you are spending more and more time together you guys are getting sick of each other. Maybe you should try something new together outside the house so that you dont sit inside all day staring at each other. Either that or move out, becaue moving in together isnt for everyone.
2006-06-26 16:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then do something to make it better. That may be as small as an unexpected phone call in the middle of the day to tell her how much you want to see her, or it could be as big as you want to make it. When the spark begins to fade, it is up to you to get things going again. Good Luck!! Check out theromantic.com for some ideas, I love that site...;)
2006-06-26 16:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by lissad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years is often around the time that the infatuation stage of a relationship ends. Maybe you just aren't in love? It could also be a result of other things though.
2006-06-26 16:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by BillyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of u should try something new together, like making pottery, go on a ski trip, go deep sea fishing, or something exciting and fun. Spice it up and maybe try a new hair style or u both can go and get makeovers together.
2006-06-26 16:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by judyju2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's just best to move on and chalk it up to two great years of being in a reltionship with a great girl!
Communication is key tho....talk with her about your concerns and try to come to an agreement together!
2006-06-26 15:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you've both made a semi- commitment so its up to you to spice up the moment and tease her till she wants it then dont give it to her you both should want it equally, i get all the sex i want but there is nothing better that switch spots with the woman and saying im not in the mood, she might get a bit mad at first but being in charge is the ****. and jeez masterbate if you cant deal with the moments
2006-06-26 16:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by nicholas k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you need to spice it up a bit take a weekend trip bring her something sexy
2006-06-26 16:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by neesatutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens, it happened to me. Just end it. seriously I know what I'm saying.
2006-06-26 15:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Ri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋