He left me n now he wants me back wat should I do ??????
2006-06-26 08:46:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should stop being his door mat if he cared he would have trusted you and he didnt and chances are he still doesnt. going back to him sends the wrong message and thats you can be treated badly and he can get away with it.
2006-06-26 08:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should get everything straight between the three of you first. Was his friend mistaken or did he deliberately sabotage your relationship? If he did that, then it is a situation you don't want to get back into anyway. It sounds like your bf doesn't really trust you. If that is the case, why would you want him back?
This might have been an elaborate plot cooked up by your bf and his friend. Either he wanted to break up with you and he didn't have the guts so he had to make up and excuse or he wanted to fool around with someone else without cheating so he cooked up a lie to break up with you temporarily and then get back with you later.
Either way, it doesn't sound good.
2006-06-26 15:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by teena9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in the confusion caused by his friend he never discussed this situation with you, I would think twice about reestablishing a relationship with him. His choice to accept the word of a friend over his girlfriend lets you know where you stand in his circle of friends. Create your own circle without him. At the very least let him know how that made you feel, and if he were in your shoes what would he do.
2006-06-26 15:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. My son father did the same things but it was his cousin that said those things. But when I tried to get the 3 of us to sit down and talk he refuse to do it. Now he is acting crazy. But if you really want him take him back but explain to him that if it is going to work, then he should come to you with something like that before jumping to conclusion.
2006-06-26 15:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by nfaredbooty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my point of view your b.f. just wannted a reason to break up with you .move on find some one that trusts you enough that he would take your word over any ones even his best friend.....do`nt sell yourself short....because you more than what you think your worth you need trust
2006-06-26 15:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.nba_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry.... but do you really want to be with a guy who can't trust you ,he didn't trust you once if this friend is jealous and says this again he won't trust you.I think that your best bet is to date one of your exs best friends show him that you have moved on and that he can't have you.
2006-06-26 15:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were nowhere to be seen with someone else, and he claims he saw you - it sounds like he is covering up something that he, himself did. I don't think I could trust someone like this again - as he is probably the one who cheated.
2006-06-26 15:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure, and probably was either told by a jealous girl that you were cheating or he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with you. Either way, let him chase you because if he wants you that bad, he should be willing to fight for you.
2006-06-26 15:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by akiastatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to ask him before you take him back if he believes you when you say you never was with anyone else and that his friend lied
2006-06-26 15:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don’t go back with him. He couldn’t even have the respect and trust to lessen to what you had to say. You don’t want somebody in your life that can’t trust you.
2006-06-26 16:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋