My bf was a lil shocked by the amount of sounds i was making when we were doin it.But i cudnt help it....do u ahve to be alil queit when doin it?
2006-06-26 08:43:27 · 38 answers · asked by Nancy D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hellz NO!! Be loud dear! That is the best part! Wake the neighbors..in fact, tell your man to make more noise too! If it feels good darnit, make the noise to go with it...i think it also feels alotbetter when you dont havet ohold it all in....
2006-06-26 08:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't like the noise but you feel the need to express yourself... try channeling it through another means.
I know some women that have learned to "bite" their lover in order to release the energy from their orgasmic body.
Others have scratch, claw, squeeze and/or pull hair.
Now, I know these sound painful, but you have to know when to stop. Create a safe word for both of you to use. Like..... puppies. If you're really feeling it and starting to bite too hard, he can say "puppies" and you know you're hurting him.
Another thing to do, is enjoy yourselves for a while in various positions, but when the excitement gets too much for you... ask him to turn you on your tummy. Pull your knees up and put your rump up and face down. Scream all you want into the pillow.
Personally, I like a woman that moans or demands more. "Hot Talk" during foreplay and intercourse is an enormous turn on.
So, if your "man" if he is a man, doesn't like any of these options... perhaps it's time for you to dominate him a little bit. Could be the sign of a submissive that needs a mistress to punish him.
Then again.... I'm never right.
Cheers
2006-06-26 08:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry Stems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think that u should just let it flow and do what feels right. Maybe your bf was just not used to women being like that. I know that a lot of women are quite but i feel the only time that u really need to tone it down is when other people are around and might be disturbed by the thought that u are having sex while they are there. But otherwise i see it as that u are really enjoying what he is doing for you and he should take it as a compliment really cause it lets him know that he is doing something right. I mean if it feels good then JUST DO IT!!! right
2006-06-26 08:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is necessarily shameful. It is a big turnoff to a lot of people...others don't mind it or actually like their partner to show extreme emotions. Be yourself and do what comes natural as long as it is not a put on. Frankly, I would be totally distracted by that much noise but I do think there is a happy medium. Your boyfriend sounds very controlling.
2006-06-26 08:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be anything but natural. Some people try to mimic the porn flicks and those can be a turn off to some men and a turn on to others. If it is not accepted by your boyfriend y'all are going to have to discuss an alternative, maybe calling his name out would be more acceptable.
2006-06-26 08:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual relations is a personal thing. How you react when having sex is who you are. Most men love a responsive female instead of a quiet little mouse. This is not to say I condone relations out side of marriage because I do not. Do not be ashamed of who you are or how you feel or react, again it is natural for you. Always keep yourself safe...Good luck
2006-06-26 08:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by joejo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Showing your pleasure from a good lover is normally taken in pride as doing everything right. Now, on the other hand, if you are not that experienced in this area, (which I get from your spellings), then they may want to be a little discreet.
2006-06-26 08:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOO its not shamefull , hell th louder the better, break gass if u can , , souds like he is just kinda of a stiff, maybe u should try finding a guy who shares ur enjoyment in sex, some who u can both be urselfs with
2006-06-26 08:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your boyfriend should be proud he is the reason for all the noise. Most men get more turned on by the moaning.
2006-06-26 08:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not. Some men like the moan....it lets them know they are doing something right. If you are too loud, tell him to turn up the TV or stereo.
2006-06-26 09:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋