I've known Girl A for 5 years. We've been good friends for the past year or two. Girl B, her best friend, I met roughly 8 months ago.
I have had feelings for Girl A for quite awhile, but never been able to say anything. I talk to a few of her friends to see if I have a chance of going out with her. They all agree that I have a chance. Yet, somewhere in the proccess, Girl A finds out. And so, thru the grapevine, she rejects me. No reason given.
I have been friends with Girl B for pretty much as long as I've known her. She was also one of the friends that I asked about the possibility of going out with Girl A.
All along, I pretty much knew that things weren't going to work out with Girl A. And, technically, I never asked Girl A out.
I'm growing to like Girl B more than Girl A recently, just because I have seen more sides of them. Also, I now know why Girl A refused.
Can I feel okay with asking Girl B (best friend of Girl A) out?
2006-06-26 08:41:38 · 9 answers · asked by Isaac J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't see why not. I guess if you like her, and she likes you, then who cares. You never went out with Girl A and so the whole best friend rule is not in effect. Just let Girl B know that she's not your second choice.
2006-06-26 08:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by chessapeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, although if you are doing that much talking through the grapevine, you don't know what has or hasnt been said. At any rate though, it would be allowed.
2006-06-26 15:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by zw88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a MAN and ask her out, if girl A didn't want you, than that's her loss. Go for it, i see no problem with you asking girl B out especially since girl A didn't want you.
2006-06-26 15:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, a MAN woulda asked A out instead of weaseling around behind her back....and, when that MAN got rejected, he would have no qualms about pursuing B...he would not post some pansy *** question on on a public forum seeking direction...dude, find your balls, dust them off and be a ******* MAN!!!...ask B out and hope she notices you are no longer the femman that was poking around A
2006-06-26 15:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go for it. Just be straight and ask her. Don't run around the bush!
2006-06-26 15:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by hardcoco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya
2006-06-26 15:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by hot chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for for girly b
2006-06-26 15:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by damademan2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not?
2006-06-26 15:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup...
2006-06-26 15:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by airforceguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋