I know that the passion is still there and we have been down this road before. I dont know what to do because I really want to be with him and I like him a lot. Im torn between what I should do? Do you think he will come back? I believe in my heart he will. Im so confused. HELP!!!
2006-06-26 08:35:16 · 12 answers · asked by honorgrad0183 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say walk away and let him come to you. Do not chase him. If it's meant for you two to be together then it will be. But chasing him will probably just push him further away. Date other people and enjoy your life...that'll bother him more then anything. And if he acts like he doesn't care....then let him not care. You live your life without him.
2006-06-26 08:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by virgogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what he's doing. Maybe he wants the sex with no strings. If you've been together a long time maybe he calls you out of habit rather than a real need to be with you. Are you sure he's still feeling the same passion as you or it seems so because you want it so much? See how things go and if the situation continues ask him straight up.
2006-06-26 15:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Bleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been down that road before, then you know what to expect. He is breaking up with you for a reason. Have you ever thought about what it could be? Maybe he has someone else and is just stringing you along in case it doesn't work out. One of these times he will not come back. It seems to me that you have a real choice to make. Sit around waiting on him, or move on and find someone that will appreciate you. It's your choice.
2006-06-26 15:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on he broke up to play the field. You said hes done it before. The next time he sees something he likes he will do it again. Find someone that will only want you and doesn't break up every time he gets the roamingitus. Respect your self he isn't.
2006-06-26 15:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by BETTY S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that you bf enjoys the sex, honorgrad, but is not interested in commitment. Did he come back to you before because he struck out with another woman? I understand that you care for him, but are you getting care in return? Is he taking care of your heart? If his motives are suspect, then it may be time to step away. It may be time to find someone new who is committed to you, and can share a loving, unselfish relationship.
2006-06-26 15:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always hope that "this time it will be better", but sometimes it's better to leave the broken relationship as it is. On the other hand fighting for the true love always pays off. it's for you to decide if he is the one, if you really love him. if it's only the passion, then he is Not worth your suffering ...
2006-06-26 15:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by vai2te 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you break up once or twice it is not meant to be. That leads for more breakups when times get bad...I say leave it alone!
2006-06-26 15:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If you really want it, then go for it. Only you can decide for yourself. Good Luck!!
2006-06-26 15:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by lissad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hell with him he wants to string u along dont be a fool
2006-06-26 15:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just give it time he is probably thinking the same thing too
2006-06-26 15:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋