I think guys are super hott! But im afraid to get like close to one, i mean i love hugging them and stuff but whenever one trys to ask me out or kiss me i freak out! Does this happen to anyone else? And why do i do this? Please help me understand! By the way, im 13 and all my friends have been kissed but i keep gettin out of it.
2006-06-26 08:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by SFGiantsLuver 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It used to happen to me when I was a teenager. I think it's just one of those things you have to deal with when you are growing up. For me It had a lot to do with being shy, and actually being comfortable with myself to say "yeah, this guy likes me and wants to date me, sweet". But I always was full of self doubt and suffered from a low self esteem. So, I was always second guessing myself and why someone would actually be intrested in me. Anyhow, I got over it in time don't worry about everyone else is doing. Just be comfortable with yourself and give it time. Don't force if your not comfortable with it yet. It will only make things worse.
2006-06-26 08:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by brooke w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Melody, why the rush to kiss a guy--just some guy so you can be like your friends? You have your life, they have theirs. You are you. A different person than they entirely. People aren't made using cookie cutters. We dont look, smell or dress the same as a bunch of gingerbread men. Just wait. It's ALRIGHT to wait. Sometime in the future, a guy will want to kiss you, you'll want him to, you'll want to kiss him, . . . it will just happen, and it will be everything you dreamed. Dont rush it or it will feel weirder than when you great Aunt Gertrude with the hairy mole plants one on your cheeks.
2006-06-26 15:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by tigerzntalons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it normal! trust me u r just afraid! i used to be the same way.. i could have been 11 and be kissed but i was wanted to wait 4 the right person( i was also afraid i would mess up too).. as 4 dating them my friends used to pressure me into dating a guy even if ididnt like them.. i say u r young and have time, dont be tied down w/ a b/f unless u really like him and ur time willl come to be kissed.. most ppl dont get there 1st real kiss until they r 14-16 anyways.. ( 13 yr old guys r really skilled kissers if u no wat i mean..
2006-06-26 15:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that you are just not ready for that kind of action?? 13 is very young and you don't need to rush your life away. You will know when you're ready, take your time and don't feel weird about it. You'll do just fine.
2006-06-26 15:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be 13 again,....there is nothing wrong with you at all.whats right for one person may not be right for another.your time will come.
enjoy your age and don't be in such a hurry to be like the "other"girls or rush into something you might regret later.
you only get one body and one life, take care of yourself and be happy.one day you will back on this and laugh.
2006-06-26 15:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by broken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young and scared. Your body is doing what it is supposed to at 13. You shouild still be playing barbies and hangin with your little girlfriends. Your body will do the right thing when you are ready!
2006-06-26 15:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you may be lesbian and im not calling you that but I don't like french kissing guys cause im afraid I'll mess up but im so boy crazy and very shy dont worry about it
2006-06-26 15:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by ashley_s_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm nineteen now and I remember how it was when I was thirteen. I had guys asking me left and right but I was scared of it. I always had the say in relationships too. Nothings wrong, you just do what feels right
2006-06-26 15:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE YOUR TIME!!! You are not ready, and that is perfectly normal, don't let what others are doing effect how you live. Only do what you want and don't be afraid to say NO!! Good Luck!!
2006-06-26 15:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by lissad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not comfortable yet with kissing and dating, wait....you are only 13, no need to rush into it...when you are reeady, you'll know...in the mean time, stop thinking about and focus on other things
2006-06-26 15:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋