I think people were confused with my question before so here it is again with added background info:
How would you handle this situation: You've always considered yourself straight but a gay guy who you're acquainted with admits to you that he likes you AND it turns out that you find yourself attracted to and/or developing feelings for him as well. What would you do?
Background: -k- I am the gay guy in this scenario. Let me give you some background. I was kinda drunk and I told this "straight" guy (friend) that I really liked him, to which he responded negatively at first (naturally). But after about a week or so, he writes me this email tellling me that he might have feelings for me as well. I've kind of talked to him since then and he insists that he's straight (NOT gay or bi). I'm just really confused, I really like him and the possibility that he likes me even though he says he's really into girls is great, but I don't want to end up being his closet case? What should I do?
2006-06-26 08:13:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well that's a hard one if I where you I would let it go until he know for sure...sound like he is
not sure, and if you act on that and then he feel
maybe he is not gay. it will end a friendship.
so if you care about him let him get there on his own.
2006-06-26 08:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by reneyhun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, you know what? He may just be curious to try things with you, but if he really is straight then I'd be careful to let myself know that it might turn into more than that. I mean... go for it, but be careful not to expect too much, I suppose.
2006-06-26 08:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by psykhaotic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awwww thats sooo cute! maybay talk to him while ur sober about how u feel. since im not gay or bi, i cant really help u too much, except that dont stay stuck on him for too long. it could b like brokeback mnt. where ennis is only gay for jack, and jack is gay. if not, just treasure ur friendship with him, and if he said he has feelings for u, talk to him about it,
2006-06-26 08:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by sydd vicious. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either give him time or move on. But I wouldn't sit around waiting for him. I think most people, whether they will admit it or not, find themselves curious about the same sex. Don't push the issue.
2006-06-26 08:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by ladyrn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a long-shot, but maybe he's saying he wants to explore with you, but to lay off the sex... In any case, he sounds confused and vulnerable, so tread carefully.
2006-06-26 08:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it be until he makes the move he may be scared or just not know or even be straight with curious tendencies
2006-06-26 08:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋