My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months and we started out over the phone long distance. He lives over 500 miles away. I would go see him on the weekends once a month and now I brought him to stay with me for a few weeks.
He owns his own home and has a job down there. He borrows money off of me and I don't see it again. I don't mind because he does spend some of his money on me. I have given him oral and yet we've not had sex.... he tells me that he wants to make sure our relationship isn't based on sex so we're waiting. I've asked for it and he calls me a dirty old man.... He's done things to get me in the mood and then go to sleep.
Is this a bad relationship or am I just over-reacting to some bad things?
2006-06-26 08:07:41 · 6 answers · asked by BbyGrl80 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does spend his money on me sometimes and he is staying with me right now.
2006-06-26 08:34:27 · update #1
Something is really off here. The fact that he doesn't want to ruin the relationship with sex, but doesn't hesitate to take your money is wrong. I would tell him that it isn't working out for you and start looking for someone else.
2006-06-26 08:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's 500 miles away and he doesn't want to base a relationship on sex, then it seems to me that he wants to base it on borrowing money. I know you mean well, you need to step out of the box and really look at this in a different angle.
2006-06-26 08:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all u were dumb 4 givin oral sex him if he didnt give it 2 u and yes u r n a bad relationship if u r spendin all yo money and none of his i think yall should take a break from 1 another 4 a while
2006-06-26 08:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend at that rate you may realise that he is just using you to achieve his own goals eg. borrowing money and you satisfying his ego.Anyway for a normal relationship to flourish it should be two way system . Now its only one side benefit ,please take good steps before you drown in soorrow.Thanks and take care.
2006-06-26 20:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by loagule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Borrowing money you don't get back isn't borrowing, it's just taking. He is a loser. Dump him.
2006-06-26 08:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not.
2006-06-26 08:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Halo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋