My husband recently began thinking about getting circumcised. Oddly enough i've never been with a circumcised man and didn't really know how to respond when he told me he was thinking about having it done? Is it really any different at all? Will lovemaking feel different? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Well any answers/advice would help really.
2006-06-26 08:05:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it will feel better for you, if different at all.
2006-06-26 08:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The difference will be felt by him, not you. Of course, why he wants to do this now is puzzling. It's difficult enough for infants...youch! At this late date, he may find that he isn't functional again for some time and once he is, he may find the sensations not quite to his liking. If on the other hand this is necessary due to a health condition...he will want to speak in depth with his doctor for there is a lot to consider.
Check out the following :
http://www.cirp.org/library/complications/money/ (describes the results of testing 5 men after this procedure and the findings), most negative.
http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/men/9909/20/circumcision.adult/
If he's getting this done because he's heard it causes incredible sensations...show him some of the above, which all lead to the conclusion that this really isn't something he wants to undergo unless he has to.
Good luck
2006-06-26 15:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is the hygiene thing, there's so much that can grow under the flap. It won't fully answer the odor thing because some of it comes whether he has the skin there or not, but it will be easier, cleaner, neater if you do the oral thing. Then too, he might also be doing it for better sensation, without the covering flesh, for him. It won't be a big thing for you.
2006-06-26 15:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is his foreskin tight? Does penetration hurt him? Then he should consult on the possibility but I've heard it's very painful as an adult. Circumcision is also a hygienic concern, as it keep the glans cleaner. I also think it will give him more sensibility.
2006-06-26 15:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about him - he will be in a lot of pain, which is why circumcision is usually done shortly after birth. It is healthier to be circumcised than not - and it will not make one bit of difference in your love life.
2006-06-26 15:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the only down point to this is that after the op, you might not be able to make love with your husband for awhile. Other than that, I don't think there will be much of a problem.
2006-06-26 15:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by rachelkelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to tell him don' t do it
This is the best web site to read about it
There is no difference when you will make it, but for him it might be. As long as he clean it every day, there s no problem.
If you get circumsised, it doesnt mean that you dont have to wash it.
God send men with foreskin, it s natural and healthy
www.nocirc.org
2006-06-26 15:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by Charly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well sex will be worse no doubt for you. You see God intended man to have that, and I know for a fact that every woman I have had relations with have told me uncircumsized is way better for sensitivity for women. So sorry about your luck.
2006-06-26 15:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would he want to go through all the pain and suffering? I have been with two men who were not circumsized and it was the best sex ever!
2006-06-26 15:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by destiny6706 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth does he want that so late in life?!?! It is not beneficial in any way...I suspect he will regret it for a long time. Painful adjustment.
2006-06-26 15:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt know they did that to grown men
why would he want to? no it's really doesnt make a differnets except in BJ's
2006-06-26 15:08:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋