2006-06-26 07:55:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably feels uncomfortable around people when she is high.
2006-06-26 07:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by lovebug1234 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm answering as someone that used to get high on a regular basis. You look at things differently when in that state of mind. For example, some movies that I thought were great on a normal every day basis were horrible under the influence.
You might just be hard to handle when she is in that state of mind.
2006-06-26 14:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by hipchic_inhiding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to go with this guy who would call me when he was drunk or high and that irritated me, id u dont smoke weed, u wouldnt want to hang around someone like that, i suggest u dump her and move on with ur life.
2006-06-26 15:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by BlkBeauty24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not something you like to do (smoke weed) I'd suggest getting rid of her. That stuff robs you of any ambition and despite what stoners say I've seen enough people who smoke all the time to know it makes you stupid and kills your short term memory. If she cares about you enough, ask her to quit.....
2006-06-26 15:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by darkness_returns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "feel" like she is cheating? I'm sure she has a valid reason behind her decision to not hang with you when she's smoking. Perhaps she's ashamed of it.. doesn't like herself when she is under that influence.. there are plenty of reasons. Best suggestion? Ask her!!
2006-06-26 15:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Trucey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "girlfriend" is addicted and the first clue is that she is acting selfishly. You'd be doing yourself a great service if you stopped seeing or talking to her. She needs a 12 step program, and she will probably rebel against it but try to suggest that she needs help and unless she is willing to get it you would have no choice but to leave her.
2006-06-26 15:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't mind hanging out with her while she'd high and you've explained that then she probably is cheating on you. Move on to someone with more goals in their life other that getting high!
2006-06-26 14:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by angei0809 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i gt da same problem!!! my bf does the same thing... it gets kinda fustratin bt he keeps tellin me to jus trust him! its a good thing that i know the people he hangs out with when he's high coz they keep an eye on him for me! but to ansa ur prob... i dnt think ur gf is cheatin on you, maybe get a fren or sumone to keep a tab on her next time she's out and doesnt want u there! but if she's had past times wer she has cheated on you...maybe you should ask her yourself
2006-06-26 15:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by browneyedchika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because she is. Are you sure she didnt say she wanted to Marry Juan, not she was smoking marijuana. Smokers usually arent anti-social, so I would think something else is going on.
2006-06-26 14:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by zw88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is cheating ... she's excluding you from a part of her life !
she's just not comfortable around you when she's high .. she might act a little different or be embarrassed around you when she is.
that sucks ... I'd find a new GF !
2006-06-26 15:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are not meant to be together. She won't quit for you. And by her not wanting to be around you while she is smoking means that she thinks your a buzzkill.
2006-06-26 14:58:49 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋