I am pretty attractive, yet I have always been timid around guys. What really attracts them so I can feel more comfortable around them.
2006-06-26 07:51:58 · 28 answers · asked by Amelie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be more assertive and confident.
2006-06-26 07:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep confidence is a big thing, so is showing interest. If u really like a guy, and want to attract him a bit more, show some interest in something he is interested in. He will be very flattered that you are making an effort, just try not to make it too obvious.
You say that you are pretty yet timid. If you work on your feelings about yourself, that will make a big difference. Be honest, do you feel good about yourself or not? If not, write down the thoughts you have, then you will be able to recognise them if you do think them, and change them to something better.
You might need to practice a bit first, but soon, thinking good about yourself will become easier and easier. Then at the same time, you will be coming across as someone who is more confident, and happy with who they are. This is VERY ATTRACTIVE and will also attract quality guys to you (not just dorks who are interested in you for your body, looks, money etc).
Do a bit of imagining too. Try seeing yourself actually BEING confident, and feeling comfortable around guys you like. You would be surprised at how effective this is.
Quite a lot of guys are also scared that a pretty girl will also be a b*tch or a ballbreaker in some way. If you act in a genuinely kind, thoughtful way and are FUN to be with, you will get plenty of dates. You will be known as someone who is great to be with, and not a b*tch-type who might well be good looking, but also acts badly.
Basically, work on your self-confidence, but be yourself. Lots of guys like a girl with an interesting character. It doesn't matter if you might think you are a bit strange or weird (just guessing here by the way) because the best girls are the ones with 'something about them.' Send out your spirit and cause a stir
2006-06-26 08:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I was a little shy around guys and then a good friend who had no problem attracting the guys told me. It doesn't matter what you look like as long as you are confident and believe in yourself the guys will respond to you. Basically if you think you are beautiful and interesting and let that show, everyone around you will see that and think that also.
2006-06-26 07:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sippy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being intelligent to start with. A guy is not always interester in your looks, intelligence is another factor. A guy needs someone to have nice conversation with so he does not feel timid either. It also helps to have a guy on your same "level"
2006-06-26 07:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by Cliff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confidence.
2006-06-26 07:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It differs person to person. A horny guy will like your body attractive , where as a matured boy will love your thoughts. a kiddish boy Will like be a doll. Serious male will never tolerate your nonsense. So be a mirror and show them what they are. That's the best way to attract males. wish you all the best.
2006-06-26 07:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Night King 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self respect, because when you have that you also have the confidence to trust your own decisions and that is really what a good man is attracted to.
2006-06-26 07:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sure to just be yourself don't freack out when he smiles at you trust me I'm the same way take it that just yesterday I met this guy and he actually come up to me and talked except we kinda stood there for 5 minutes I'm very shy also and just be sure to act normal like your talking to a old friend.
2006-06-26 07:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by ashley_s_15 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like girls with confidence. also they like to feel in control of the relationship, and sometimes like to feel like they are needed in the relationship, like the changing of a tire etc. Just be confident, with a sort of feeling that they need you, but you dont need them.
2006-06-26 07:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mezee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great sense of humor, modest, confident, self respect, a positive attitude, great listening skills is what attracts guys (don't forget shape).
every one is beautiful in his/her own way, they are alot of guys that feel that way.
2006-06-26 07:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by Ke Ke 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A positive attitude
2006-06-26 07:54:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋