I tried breaking up with my bf over the weekend &had no luck. If u refer 2my other question asked uwill get the idea. Im confused &dont know if I luv him or am still inluv with my ex. My ex &I broke up 3yrsago cuz it was a long distance relationship. I moved out where he was for 1yr but came back 2finish school. We broke up but we still loved each other. He was the perfect guy. We never argued or fought &we got along 150%. loved the same things &it felt like heaven. My current bf is the opposite, we fight, argue all the time &have a differnce in opinions. I dont know if I luvhim anymore &my ex came to the USA &wants 2c me. Hes been after me 4the 3 yrs. Please note that I have been having issues with my current bf for a long, long time &has nothing to do with my ex. I need 2go2NYC but dont know what 2tell my bf 2let me go for 5 days without communication. I need to know where my heart is and I cant tell him the truth. I need 2know and be at peace and know who I belong with.
2006-06-26 07:39:30 · 4 answers · asked by AngelinasMommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds a bit too complicated! Maybe you should just be completely honest with your current boyfriend. Tell him what you just posted for the whole world to see and tell him that he can either accept it and let you see what it is your heart wants or else let you go now. You don't seem to mind if you lose him since you tried to break up with him over the weekend (Which I'm curious...if you tried then it should have been done. It's not hard to say "I don't love you anymore and would like to check out other opitions in life" if you truely feel that way! If you weren't able to say those words then maybe in the back of your mind you are having more second thoughts about the ex then you are willing to let on or else you are just scared the ex won't really want you back like he claims. Either way...don't try to hang on to both guys...because in the end...you will lose them both. Be honest and let them decide what they want to do!
2006-06-26 07:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by brooklynn_31502 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hi ,i hav understood ur situation.rnt u a matured gal ,cant u decide wich is good and wich is bad.as if ur a grown up gal.ur heart can choose wich is better.fst of all u imagine abt ur feature that if u marry any of tese two guys,the one wich u will be encountered with problem will be the second one. i think.not exactly but mostly u didint understood abt ur ex bf.nothing to worry fst share ur feelings with both and then u decide the better.dosent matter wether hes long distant person.i hope ull hav meticulous life .
2006-06-26 14:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by harshavardhan_fury 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your former boyfriend is the best bet - at least you get along - though you might be wondering what he's been up to over the past three years.
Your current boyfriend sounds like a control freak - he wouldn't even agree to a breakup - what's his problem? All you need to do is walk out.
2006-06-26 14:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're mentally challneged, aren't you?
2006-06-26 14:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋