2006-06-26 07:23:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so far i love two people and i know i love them
2006-06-26 07:33:54 · update #1
you need to understand the difference between love & infatuation...getting infatuated to someone is pretty normal...we see so many beautiful people & get attracted to them but when you are in love you stop noticing others beautiful faces around & you find the person you love the most beautiful of them all...so sweetheart theres nothing wrong with you but i would suggest not to get serious about each & every person you meet so that you dont end up getting hurt...take your time to figure out if its love or just infatuation...you'll know it when you dont want to think about anyone else except that one person & you also feel that they are the only one who can keep you happy...
2006-06-26 07:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is an intense feeling of shared values, so not to be insulting but it is prob caused by one of a few possibilities the first being you are projecting your own value system on another, rather than analyzing theirs, 2- perhaps you are confusing love with lust or infatuation, in that you don't yet know the others values but what you do know is something you could love. then later finding out that the person is not who you thought they were. Or perhaps, and this would be the worst... you lack an identifiable value system of your own, and are supplanting the values of others in the place of what should be your own rationally chosen values, if this is the case, you need to spend a bit of time introspecting, and in fact what you would then be feeling could not be love. But certainly there is nothing wrong with you, a sense of self takes time to develop you cannot instantly know that which you value.
2006-06-26 07:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by iconoclast_ensues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably doing this because your in love with the idea of being in love. We all just want someone there and someone to be there for. Try taking a break; exercise, practice yoga, or whatever makes YOU feel great. God will place that special partner when you least expect it. This is a promise!
2006-06-26 07:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by CutiePie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think you're falling in love with the person, rather you are in love with the fact that you are with some-one and not alone. You really need to look deep in side yourself to see if this is the case.
2006-06-26 07:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by salembog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are truly in love with two people. It may feel like it at the time but, I think it is probably more lust than love.
2006-06-26 07:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by tdoll7777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem.I met a girl on here and she just broke whatever was left of my heart today.It sucks.I need to find something to help me out.I dont want to be hurt everyday.
2006-06-26 07:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by joshrocksvegas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but aparently you trust people easily... i was like that at some point in time, don't trust every guy that gives the world and the moon and the stars and all that crap... most men just want to get laid. im not trying to sound mean or whatever but its the truth
2006-06-26 07:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by mz_flaca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew someone who had the same problem..
all you have to do are two things when you get into a relationship:
#1: dont let you heart out.....period......let it come out..
meaning, dont tell yourself your feeling something when youre not even sure you are.....
#2: dont rush into anything...take your time.
let them call you, and if they do, blow them off a couple of times just so that you can get compsure of yourself, before you feel like your "fallng": for them..
go into the relationship/friendship like "whatever"
...................... just be "hard to get" u know?
but in this case, "hard to love"
2006-06-26 07:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Alex-wine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no the only problem is you will be hurt to much if u find out the person doesnt love you back
2006-06-26 07:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Redsox324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you just looking for some one that you can just fall inlove with and just spend the rest of your life with but you have you understand that it is going to take some time.
2006-06-26 07:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by kenisha_ma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋