I love my boyfriend and we have the best times together but he has issues with continuing to hit on other girls especially when he is drunk. I know that they don't know what they've got till they are gone but I can't get up the nerve to leave. I hate myself for being so weak. I just want some one who wants to be only with me and treat me with respect.
2006-06-26 07:02:47 · 15 answers · asked by brown_eyes_jessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem and this is what I do tell him and if he gets mad then tell him you need a man who respects you. But like they say you have to worry when they stop looking because that probley mean that they are cheating on you. Ask him why he stares and hits on other girls and ask him to stop. If he gets mad or deosn't stop then he never respected you and you don't belong wasting your time on a guy that doesn't respect you. Jamie
2006-06-26 07:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't understand you love your boyfriend you two have a great time together but he continues to hit on girls um 1st. are you the girl he his hitting?
2nd Weither or not he is hitting you or other females it is wrong and he has anger issue by justifying it but saying its alcohol isn't helping the situation. Until he can admitt that he has a problem this will never be a easy person to walk away from.
3rd. It kind of sounds as if he is being unfaithful and sweetie there are so many things out there for you in life you don't need to sell yourself short simply cause you have not found it. There is no need to scared, weak, nervous or anything like that if you don't want to be with him you don't have to! If its that you are afraid of what he might do to you I suggest that you break the news to him in front a lot of people were you have witnesses. If you don't have any ties to him why stick around.
IF HE IS HITTING YOU THINK ABOUT THIS : WHAT IF HE BEATS YOU INTO A COFFIN BECAUSE HE HAD A LITTLE TOO MUCH TO DRINK.
RUN WHILE YOU HAVE A CHANCE AND DON'T LOOK BACK,
YOU CAN DO BAD BY YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-26 14:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex bf was the same way. The thing is your boyfriend may only hit on them now but eventually it may turn into "other stuff". YOu need to break up with him before you really get hurt. You need to explain to him you dont trust him right now and until he grows up a little bit you dont want to be in the relationship. Its going to be hard, but in the long run you wont regret it.
2006-06-26 14:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel weak,you once had feelings for him,and you don't want anyone to get their feelings hurt. Just think:There's a guy out there who will respect you and love you. And besides,if the drinking problem gets worse,the man you are currently dating could lash out at you,and possibly try and rape you!! Get out while you still can.
2006-06-26 14:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you have to move on! I know its hard to do, but you deserve so much better then that! Why would you put yourself threw that!? Think of what it's doing to you inside? You do deserve someone much better! someone who loves you and only you and won't disrespect you. A Man like that will get what he deserves in the end! You need to respect yourself enough to say enough is enough and move on! Good luck!!!
2006-06-26 14:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by nalerij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind yourself of all those things you just said when you break up with him. Make sure its at a good time though.
Or you can just say its over and walk away (or run). Change your number and home. ~but i guess that is pretty crazy.
You might want to talk to your girlfriends and ask them to help you.
2006-06-26 14:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it tell him that your not going to take anything from him and break it up with him. If he tries to come back to you tell him no nad if he tries one more time than you can tell him yes cause then he likes you alot.
2006-06-26 14:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather leave him now . . or have a threesome at a party? I highly recomend that you stay with him . . have some fun for crying out loud. Its not like you guys are married.
2006-06-26 14:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hey i love you but you can't behave . So change or hit the road Jack and mean it.
2006-06-26 14:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him hes not what your looking for right now or just tell him to change or get out of my life asshole.
2006-06-26 14:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋