I am in middle school and I have never asked a girl out before. If you ask her out, do you actually go somewhere (movies, pool, etc.) or do you just walk her to her classes and hug her a lot and stuff like that?
2006-06-26 06:36:57 · 40 answers · asked by kandyman4884 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask her
2006-06-26 06:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is flirt with her, make sure she likes you!!!
If she does then you hang with her alot more than you normally do, become friends with her but not to close of friends!!! Then when the time is right ask her, she will say yes!!! Most of the time when you ask some one out you go somewhere, unless your to young, then its just walking her to classes and stuff. The hug part don't come into play just right off the bat, you have to have been going out for awhile to hug her cause it might not feel right if you hug her first thing!!!! The kissing part only happens when both of ya'll are ready, so I have know clue when that would be, if you kiss her when she isn't ready then she will probably break-up with you!!!!!
If you don't like that advice then do it your own way!!!
2006-06-26 06:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First talk to her and try to get a feel for the situation. See if she seems friendly or if she may like you back. Then ask if she'd like to go and have a coffee or play pool or movies, etc. Might be best to ask her if she'd like to do something simple first. Something that will not take a lot of time. Just meet somewhere and chat. See where it goes.
2006-06-26 06:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First just start talking to her online a lot and at school. Then after awhile, start texting her. (If you both have cell phones) Then just start hugging her when school's over and when you leave parties. Then actually start dancing with her at parties. Then tell one of her close friends that you like her. Chances are her best friend will confide in her and tell her that you like her. Then give her some room. Let her IM you and talk you at school, but don't ignore her! Finally, you'll know when the time is right, tell her that you like her and ask her out.
2006-06-26 07:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by ChaCha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you ask her out, it is really up to your parents what/where you go. She would really appreciate you walking her to her classes and, if parents allow, you all should go out to the movies or out to eat. Of course, you should not hug her a lot b/c she may not like that. Good luck.
2006-06-26 06:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you'd like to get to know her better. That if you go out and nothing clicks, then nothing lost nothing gained, but if you don't wouldn't it be terrible to never know.
If she says yes, then let her talk about things she likes. If she says no at first, the not knowing part will bug her and ask again in a few days if she's maybe reconsidered. Don't be crushed if she never says yes.
2006-06-26 11:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by GA_metroman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to her and say, there is a really good movie at the theater would you like to go with me to see it. I'm going to the lake tomorrow would you want to go with me. Add anything fun and ask her if she would like to join you. If she says yes try to show her a good time and if there is chemistry you have a girlfriend. If not pick another and try again.
2006-06-26 06:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by n317537 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!!!! well dude first if u wanna hit on a girl, you first get to know her name, and stuff im pretty sure u get dat part, then you play around with her make her laugh etc, then the third part when ur talking about sumthing w/e it is try to make an entrance to go like, " so wat r u doin this saturday" if shes not doin n e thing then u go like "well i aint doin nothing either so u wanna go out sum place" if she says yeah then ur all set lol take her to da park movies restaurant or sum nice place to hang out and compliment her, always works ;)
2006-06-26 06:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way is not to actually ask her, but tell her. When you are talking to her, bring up a movie you know she would want to see. When she says, "That looks like a good movie", you say, "We should go see it this weekend." She'll say, "Yeah, that would be cool." And without ever asking, you'll have a date.
2006-06-26 06:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her first and see if you really like her or not. This has happened to me a lot and I no its NOT the smartest thing to ask her out before you actually become good friends w/her
2006-06-26 06:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by AirsoftMan425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to a movie (of her choice) or out to dinner. You pick the restaraunt so she can see what kind of taste you have. After the first date, just hang out with her, listen to music or watch movies - doesn't matter just as long as you spend quality time together. She will like that
2006-06-26 06:41:02 · answer #11 · answered by jayhawk1124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋