I love the things we do but I'm wondering if maybe we take it to far? I don't want to hit the point where we want to have sex with other people. We have talked about it, but I'm afraid it will mess up what we have. Is it wrong we are this sexual? Our relationship is amazing, are we delving into bad territory?
2006-06-26 05:55:02 · 20 answers · asked by questiongal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go have sex wit someone ekse
2006-06-26 05:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lil joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you delve into sex with other people, questiongal, then you're asking for trouble. But as far as what you share between the two of you, if you actually run out of things to enjoy, then start over again. From the beginning. (Or from the top. Or from the bottom up.)
Your dealing with the love and affection of two people, you and your bf. Bringing in a third (or more) people will jeopardize the bond your relationship has created. What is amazing now will get chiseled down to regret.
2006-06-26 13:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being that sexual. In my opinion you aren't delving into bad territory... yet. If you start to feel like you're going too far, or you're not comfortable with something, say so. I'm certain he will understand and back down a little bit from that.
2006-06-26 12:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enough is enough when it becomes something you don't want to do and/or are not comfortable doing.
It is not wrong to be sexual- you are enjoying each other! That's great! As long as you both have are respectful of one another and respect each others boundaries it will be fine. Also, you have to keep an open line of communication with each other. As long as you have those two things, you are fine.
Enjoy yourself and be safe!
2006-06-26 12:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO DO NOT DO IT!!!!!! Sex is a beautiful thing to be shared only with your partner. Do not let other people use your body as a toy (slam bam, thank you mam), it is something sacred. When the topic comes up do not let him think you are considering it, let him know it is not right, did you also forget about aids and other std's?Have all the fun possable with him and let him do the same with you. DO NOT GO OUTSIDE.
2006-06-26 13:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by batista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel even a little uncomfortable with it, don't do it. Doing things for the sake of your boyfriend that you aren't comfortable with will cause you to resent him. This will cause trouble in your relationship. Maybe not at first, but eventually.
2006-06-26 12:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you both are being responsible and not ignoring your true feelings for each-other it's OK to aim for the stars....But make sure there is more than just sex between you.
2006-06-26 13:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by lexiekitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to do a threesome with my boyfriend [of 1year also] too!...haven't done it yet..because having a threesome is like putting a magnifying glass on your relationship...the good things will be really good and the bad things will be really bad....my boyfriend thinks that i would become jealous afterwards....but who knows...i think perhaps we should wait a little longer in our relationship...but i am really adventurous and i want to try it out...not just to please him..but to satisfy my curiosity as well...
just be careful! have fun! be OPEN and HONEST with each other...have a deep talk before hand...an experience like this could bring you even closer together! :D
2006-07-03 09:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great to be adventurous but both parties have to be comfortable with it. If you aren't comfortable with allowing other people to become involved, tell him and don't do it.
2006-06-26 12:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by Showoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love each other then do NOT bring any one else in .it will not be good
as for the two of you if you do it all now then it will get boring later in life trust me
2006-06-26 13:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by rickherr10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Do whatever you want with each other but not with any one else. I did my girlfriends sister by accident once and it nearly caused a problem.
2006-06-26 12:59:20 · answer #11 · answered by Michael D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋