when is the right time for a parent to stop having sex or babies? or is it ok to be 45 and still have a baby. or is it still ok to 45 and still be having sex.
2006-06-26 05:54:12 · 18 answers · asked by Beasleybabee 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sex is something to be had as long as a couple desires it. Believe it or not, people have good sexual relationships well into their senior years with no trouble at all. Children are a different story, though. How many children is usually determined by the family finances and lifestyle. If a couple can only provide for one or two, then that's enough. Too many children hamper the family since their lifestyle is strained by lack of financial resources, living conditions and educational opportunities. It is obvious to see a successful couple with only one or two children while poor people have children too early in life thus ruining their chances to an education and limiting themselves to menial jobs, condemning the family to a life of poverty and lack of satisfaction. Children should be a blessing, not a hinderance so have them in the proper time (that you may enjoy your marriage first) and in the proper number (that you may have the lifestyle that you want).
Mr. M on children.
2006-06-26 06:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course its ok! If a body can naturally have the baby, then its ok to have it. All women have a different idea of when they are done. For me its 30. I'm 26 now and am planning my fourth and last child. After that, I'm done. On the other hand, my sister in law is 30 and hasn't had children yet. She is planning to start in the next few years. So as long as the couple wants a baby, its cool to have one! As for sex, I plan to still be having it with my husband at 92!
2006-06-26 13:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
45? LOL That's pretty funny. I am assuming you are talking about your parents? Well, honestly, it depends. Having unsafe sex is one thing - if they are having monogomous relationships, that's another.
I personally plan to have sex till the day I die!
as for the baby thing - that is a personal and physical decision. If you feel you are healthy, having a baby at 40 can be a good thing - a friend of mine had one at 41 - she is better at parenthood in her 40's than she was in her 30's when she had her first child.
2006-06-26 13:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex as long as you are physically able. As for babies the risk goes up for the baby and the mother if mom is under 18 or over 35
2006-06-26 13:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever have to stop having sex. Making babies is totally up to the parents. It depends on thier health, but risk go up after the age of 35.
2006-06-26 12:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by cyndi_035 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
providing the women has had previous children and no complication I think 45 is alright
as for sex of course its all right for sex, 45 is way to young to stop
2006-06-26 12:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Robert B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women need to be cautious about having a baby in their 40s. There is a greater chance of Down's Syndrome and other developmental problems. But you are NEVER too old for sex!
2006-06-26 12:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Leela13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a basic part of a couple, so as when to stop having sex? Never, that will only generate sexual stress and couple problems.
As for children,just have as many as you can afford, no more, but when you get by 45 is dangerous for both woman and baby, so don't risk your life.
2006-06-29 15:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Priest 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you stop having sex? Do you only have sex to procreate? It's okay to have sex no matter how old you are. As far as having children into your late 40's, my opinion is that it is selfish of people that age to have kids, as they won't have the same amount of energy and they are already middle age.
2006-06-26 13:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Babes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When they as an adult, decide it's ok. That's the joy of actually being one, being able to make decisions for themself, regardless of what others think. Btw- some 45 yr olds are hawt!
2006-06-26 12:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by palevox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋