i have been invited to my work colleges wedding but he has been sleeping with someone and i feel uncomfortable about going
2006-06-26 05:52:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Then politely decline. Say something like, "Congratulations, but I already have plans that day. Wishing you the best."
2006-06-26 05:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You send back a note saying "Miss Jane Doe regrets that she will be unable to attend the wedding of Mr Phil Andering and Miss Betty Bride on April first." No need to give a reason. No need to give a gift.
2006-06-26 13:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decline the invitation.
2006-06-26 12:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have standards don't go, don't be a hypocrite like him, don't be a part of something so pure when some one is not compromising to it. Promising love to someone else in a church and doing the opposite outside, well you make your judgment, good luck.
2006-06-26 13:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by vanilla_d_i_v_a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How close are you to this work colleague? If not close - don't go and don't worry about it. I personally would not go - even if it was a close associate bcuz I do not approve of this type of behavior, the sleeping around. He should not be getting married.
2006-06-26 14:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindly decline the invite. If he knows that you know about his little affair......he will know why you are declining. Don't torture yourself by going and feeling bad for the bride the whole time. Good Luck..... :)
2006-06-26 14:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Shelli T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's disgusting. Why do men propose if they're not ready to keep their pants zipped up? Just politely decline. Or you could tell the bride what he's been doing...just kidding.
2006-06-26 13:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just respond that you won't be attending. You aren't obligated to provide a reason. If he asks, just say you can't make it. He doesn't need to know you can't make it because he's a dog.
2006-06-27 00:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go just bc you where invited does not mean a thing, they just want to either rub it in your fase, or they want a presant, so send a card with a $1.00 giftcertificate in it and tell them congrats.......
2006-06-26 14:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Politely decline and don't worry about it.
2006-06-26 13:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by tequila_girl98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋