I keep getting bashed for seeing a married man and advised to find a single man. Well I have been looking for many years and still nada. I have no way to meet anyone in day to day life as my job offers no opportunity and my neighborhood offers nothing. I have limited transportation and can't get out past dark ( been assaulted once) so I am limited to internet meeting. I meet only perletual batchelors (guys still single at 50) and drunks, and guys that want to get physical right away. No guy seems to be looking for committment and marriage. If I meet a guy who is interested he just wants me to come hang out at his place instead of going out anywhere. I always refuse and well I am still looking. I am 40 and the guys my age are no more looking for anything serious than the married guy. I work most evenings and weekends and it doesn't seem there are alot of guys free during the day (except married guys). I meet guys I like but they reject me.
2006-06-26 05:47:14 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please note I have only been with this married guy a year but haven't been with anyone else in the past 15 years.
2006-06-26 06:29:57 · update #1
I understand your situation, and know you're telling the truth. I still have to believe that there's a guy out there that would be just what you have in mind, in every way. I've tried the internet dating thing also, and I'm not too impressed. The chances you have to get out, and go places where there are single men, do it! Sooner or later, you're going to hit paydirt with one! I'm pulling for you, and I believe in you! You're going to win, in the end! Good Luck!!
2006-06-26 05:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand were you are in your life you are looking for a good guy someone to get serious with. If I were you I would want to be away from this married man he robbed you of 15 years of your life. you could have meet some one who would love as a whole and instead off throwing you part time loving how dear him, who in the hell he think he is!!!
to play with other emotions fro self gradification, You can and will meet some one else just give it a chance. sometime it si good to work on our selves before Mr. right comes when it is time you will meet so one but you have to open up and not shoot it down before you can give it a chance, I know I sure enought wouldn't want the first person that run up to me , it take time to find a person.
you could have been found someone but you was wasting your time with someone that already feel whole and has who is going to retire with and that is his wife. do you realized how you allowed him to steal you time and youthand in return throw you little crumbs to shut you up but is still married to his wife.
Honestley is would be better that you be by yourself for a while and look at what really happened and make should that would never happen again. when you behave like that it help lower you self esteem. you have to build yourself up you don't want to bring that drama in to another relationship, clear it up and move on.
I wish you the best!!!
2006-06-26 06:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the "good" guys are always found in church. they can basically be found anywhere. you just have to open your eyes and look at the world differently. dont put yourself down because of rejection. it happens to all of us. we just have to take chances and most of time it pays off. so dont feel bad. theres someone out there thats looking for you as well. keep your head up and feel confident that you'll meet the man of you dreams someday.....good luck!
2006-06-26 05:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by ~jervi mervi~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im single for the moment, im me and lets chat ^_^
2006-06-26 05:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by carlosofia2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all are with me
wana have one
im me
2006-06-26 05:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by newoldnew9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish you luck.. you sound hopeless though.
2006-06-26 05:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am single... wanna talk im
2006-06-26 05:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by hitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somewhere
2006-06-26 05:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋