What will u do when ur mom says to u that u r a unlucky person and its bcz of ur unluckiness ur family is facing lot of problems,when u r in no way responsible 4 that problem.
2006-06-26 05:26:56 · 17 answers · asked by gayathri c 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
THINK POSITIVE!!!
2006-06-26 05:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by lilswimmerxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun...if ur mom says that ur unlucky then first of all, it seems like she has an anger problem towards u or just a general anger problem and she is directing it to u. And she said bec/ of ur unluckiness ur family has a lot of problems...well u know that **** happens...what can u do about it...prolly nothing so just let that roll off ur back...she is more than likely just venting and directing some of her anger towards u...if i were u i would tell her it is not ur problem...or fault....and if u r not smart enough to know there is no such thing as luck and everything happens for a reason...than now u know.
2006-06-26 12:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by Floridas_finest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key here. You would do well to sit with your mom and have her explain with proof, how and why she thinks that you are an unluky person. Then let her know that you cannot be held responsible for the problems of others. I believe that life offers us challenges and situations that may not be very appealing, but luck has nothing to do with it. You have the ability to create your own positive way in this life and it is up to you to do it. Never let anyone catagorize you. Good luck.
2006-06-26 12:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my mom very calmly and directly that she is seriously incorrect and that I don't believe it is something a parent should ever say to their child. Then i would tell my mom that everyone is responsible for their own actions including you. I would also tell my mom that I know i can't change you or your belief's and it is unfortunate that this is how you perceive me and that you live your life with the superstition that i am some how unlucky.
2006-06-26 14:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by mia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The deffinition of a child is a person unable to be responsible, you might remind her of this. Just remember to pray for her, God loves you both and wants you to ask for his help, for her and for yourself. With God, nothing is impossible, then ask her what you can do. If she continues to blame you without justification, call your counties Child Services, they may be able to help your family thru a difficult time. As with God, no help will be forthcoming if nobody else knows aboutit. Luck is indifferent, don't you be, and don't think others in the world are, no matter how much your mother may think so.
2006-06-26 12:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to known within yourself who you are and what you stand for and hold onto that and do not let her thoughts become your own. If you let her dictate this to you then you will began to see yourself as such. Just listen and nodd your head, but in your heart know who you are and that she is wrong.
By the way, I am a Christian and believe no matter what God is in control. Sometimes bad things happen and others great things. But it is not because of the roll of the dice, it is something bigger.
2006-06-26 12:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess all you can do is listen to your mom. You dont have to agree though. Some people think they are always right and that is not the case all the time. So maybe just leave the room whenever she starts talking all this crazy stuff. You know you have that right.
2006-06-26 12:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the lines of communication open. ask her why she feels this way and to give examples. She may just be experiencing a rough time and it's easier to take it out on you. If she still persists then seek counselling for the both of you. DON'T LET ANYONE EVER MAKE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF!!!
2006-06-26 12:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by PlainLana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why, exactly, she feels that way. Tell her how it makes you feel to hear her say that. And if she does not stop, tell a trusted adult (teacher, clergyperson), who will be able to help you not have the guilt it seems like she is trying to place on you.
Good luck and stay positive.
2006-06-26 12:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Leah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess my mother is not a GOD or gifted card/palm reader that reads my future to judge me that im very unlucky person... maybe she has a big problem involving of my existence...well its not my responsibililty at all because in the first place i didnt ask her to be my mother...
2006-06-26 12:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by vijaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it definately isn't u one person can't bring about all the family problems it might of been you moms way to not feel so bad if someone else feels guilty
2006-06-26 12:32:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋