Escort Service?

Question

So I went to my bf today. There on the floor was a phone book that was opened. I looked at it and it was on a page where escort services were offered. I was in shock. I never thought he could order a hoe! I asked him about it and he said he doesn't know why it's opened on this page so I got mad even more. Then he told me that he and his friend were drinking last time and that they looked at this page just for a joke and that I don't understand guys, becasue they joke like that sometimes. He told me that he can't believe I would think he would order an escort service. But how can I be sure? What do you think?

Answer 1

Maybe he did...maybe he didn't.. If he doesn't want to tell you there is no sense in going on about it.
He was with a friend out drinking.. and when you've had a few drinks too many you start to act stupid.
That's just what it was... Boys being stupid

Answer 2

While alcohol is not an excuse for such behaviour, it wouldn't surprise me that this was the case. If you really don't trust your boyfriend enough to take his word for it that he didn't order an escort, check his phone bill and also the last numbers dialed from his phone. If any of them match the number that was on the page, then your suspicions are correct and he and his friend called for an escort. If none of them match that number (or any of the other escort service numbers in that phone book if you really don't trust him), then he's been telling the truth. But the main question is... if you really don't trust him enough to think that he's telling the truth, why are you with him?

Answer 3

It sounds like you are over reacting a bit. What else was on the page. Maybe they were looking at something else but YOU only saw the escort service. If he says he didn't do anything then trust him unless you have other proof not too.

Answer 4

First when you questioned him he said he didn't know why the book was open to that page, that was a lie. He then decided to tell you the truth (maybe). Then he turned it around on you by saying "I cant believe you would think blah, blah, blah". It was his phone book, in his house and he lied about it. Either way, do you want a guy who would even entertain the idea when drinking and with his friends ?? Tons and tons of guys use these services....there wouldn't be a million of them if they didn't and its not too far a stretch to think your man might be one of them.

Answer 5

Is a guy thing i got few brother and friends they married n they like to used escort service..but im single i never been interesting in pay for one!..maybe they feel like they eating the same meal everyday n getting tired so the go out to eat a diferent meal....sad, but true.

Answer 6

I think you are making too much out of this. So what if his friends were joking around and checking stuff out. It is what guys do!!! Now if you found "proof" such as a receipt or credit card statement, then you might be worried. Really, you should just shrug it off as guy stuff...there isn't anything you can do about it.

Answer 7

If he did he did, nothing you can do abuot it afterword. Question though if he was drunk and looked at it as a joke, then why didn't he close it when he woke up?
Also, if you suspect you man is cheating, get him to the nearest planned parenthood clinic and get him STD tested, if you are having more than 1 partner at a time then you need to get tested about every 6 months.

Answer 8

From expirience, he is not doing anything wrong. He was proabably just looking at it, and to be honest those adds are a bit funy sometimes.

I say you dont sweat it!!! Guys would rather go to a strip club than order a hoe!!!

Answer 9

Accept it .. Guys do have fun like that when they are with pals . Nothing in a wrong way but just to have fun,

Relax and chill out.. everythign is fine no point in getting mad.,

Answer 10

girls need to stop thinking the worst. Guys do things like that all the time when the are with their friends. Usually it is nothing but talk. take your man's word for it unless there is other evidence.