2006-06-26 05:04:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He must not be very good I you slept through it. Anyway is he on any sleeping pills? Some of those things can mess you up. People wonder around and have sex and never remember it. Otherwise mabey he though you were awake. You prolly moan in your sleep.
2006-06-26 05:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one here can answer that question, but you can by asking yourself a few other questions. Do you and your boyfriend have enough sex while you're both awake or does he have trouble approaching you? Does he have a problem with any of your rules about sex that he can bypass while you're asleep? Is he trying to get you pregnant? Do you still trust him? Technically you are describing non-consensual sex- pretty much the same as having sex with someone who is unconscious for whatever reason, like from being drugged. It's still your choice as to how you feel about it. If it bothers you, either tell him that you don't want him to do that ever again or break up with him. If you choose to be understanding, at least make him explain himself because this bit of taking advantage of you might be the beginning of worse behavior later if he thinks it's okay with you or if he thinks you won't say anything. The first thing to question is your ability to communicate with this boyfriend.
2006-06-26 12:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by anyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's being really romantic, or he doesn't care about you and just wants the honey pot between your thighs and that he doesn't even repect you enough to wake or to make sure you get yours.
Did he at least make sure you came after you woke up?
2006-06-26 12:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to me where I will wake up and I am having sex. I have no idea that I am anticiating it until I wake up in the middle. It's weird, but I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one.
2006-06-26 12:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by LL Cool J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda weird...him taking liberties without your consent. Obviously doesn't need your input. That's no better than him doing an inflated doll or porn masturbation. I think he should nudge you awake and get your consent to continue. If it bothers you, talk to him about it and if it doesn't give him the ok by continuing to play dead while he gets his rockers off.
2006-06-26 12:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by moved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really. it just mean he woke up horny and was trying to get you in the mood. tell him though that the most effective way to wake a woman up -is orally...works every time!! lol
2006-06-26 12:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Free_Spirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he special to you? A long time ago, I had a girlfriend that did this to me a number of times. I worked two jobs so would really conk out. She was as horny as they come - did it to get rid of a headache - how cool is that?
Wish I had married her....
2006-06-26 12:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by been there! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were asleep? gosh that's kind of odd, unless your a real heavy sleeper. Talk to him and tell him that's strange and to make sure your awake.
2006-06-26 12:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you a really deep sleeper and he doesn't care if you participate or even approve, as long as he is getting some!
2006-06-26 12:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has got some issues
2006-06-26 12:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by S. Leroy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋