are breaks a good idea or shud we just break up totally?

Answer 1

if u love someone, let them go... if they come back its meant to be :)

Answer 2

First, why take a break? If you are unsure of your relationship, or vice versa, then maybe breaking up would be better for both of you.
Typically when a couple takes a break they are having major problems and don't deal with the problem at hand, they simply take a break hoping that he unresolved issue will clear up on its own. But in reality all you are doing is running away from a problem. When you do eventually get back together, the problem(s) still exist, but aren't on the surface anymore. The problem with that is that you never learn how to deal with your relationship problems..and believe me, every relationship has it's problems from time to time.But the people who work out their problems don't take breaks from their relationships. They either break up or work things out together.

Answer 3

story from the little box:-

It's meaningful....

Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student
lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.
Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher,

Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate?
Could you please help me?

Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answered)

Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.

Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???

Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass
there, why don't you walk there but please never walk
backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try
to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.

Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).

A few minutes later...

Student : I'm back.

Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand

Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass,
but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up.
But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't
picked up any. Because you told me not to go back, so I didn't go
back.

Teacher : That's what happened in real life.

What is the message of this story?

* Grass - is people around you
* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
* Grass Field - is time
* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always
compare and hope that there will be a better one. By
doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember..

"Time Never Goes Back".

It applies the same in finding your ideal life
partner, your suitable career or business, therefore
the morale is LOVE & grab hold of the opportunity
that you have now, don't waste time!


its up to u...

Answer 4

Breaks=bad idea. Whats the point? If it's not working out, why waste your time. Chances are a matter of months will not fix anything. If its really meant to be, you will get back together later.

Dont waste your time on a "break".

Answer 5

Break up totally.

My ex said he wanted a break. That was hard. When we broke for good - it was harder still. I had to go through the pain of two break ups.

Break up totally and if in the future you try again, great.

Answer 6

Breaks are a painful thing...never thot about it like that before- "good idea".
So, tell me....what's the difference between Breaks and Total Breaks..?

Answer 7

Breaks are a very bad idea. Either you want to be with them or you don't so make the choice and go with it. Breaks just make break ups more painful and complicated.

Answer 8

Breaks seem to give your partner the green light to do what they shouldn't while still in a relationship...if things are becoming over-welming then back off alittle...not to the point its a temporary break but perhaps a time out from day in day out contact...to the point you both don't want to be apart so long...it should be to the point that it draws you closer not further apart.

Answer 9

i don't believe in having a break if you cant communicate and sort out the problem then you shouldn't be together, do you live under each others feet have you got any friends to spend time with, partners ain't the be all and end all, see your mates or family then when you go back to your partner you've got other things to talk about it shouldn't be stale!

Answer 10

Just break up. "Taking a break" is just a great excuse to be able to mess around with someone else while maybe even messing around with the original partner at the same time.

Answer 11

Breaks are not a good idea. If you need a break...you shouldn't be together.