my bf is being an asshole...... i have to clue what to do with him...
he doesnt have a car so i have to drive him everywhere with his friends....he doesnt have money..... well he does but when ever we go out i have to pay the food..... my friends told that i should break up with him.... but i dont kno what to do.... hes really cute and nice
2006-06-26 04:47:42 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beak up with him.When you both go on dates you have to pay thats not right.It should be the other way around.Hes nice and really cute and it really dont matter because there are better people who are willing to pay for your meals and that have a car and is way hotter and sweeter than he is.
2006-06-26 04:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 3⤋
Cuteness don't really matter, niceness does, but in your case, he isn't being nice. Do tell him how you feel whe he is doing those things to you? if you didn't you better, cause to me he is only using you for your car and your money. And I don't see that he doesn't care. Your not his taxi nor his bank. He either needs to go or you'll pay for it later and believe me you don't want that. So, break up with the guy and find someone else. There are other cute and real nice guys out there, but don't look too hard cause you'll only fing the assholes.
2006-06-26 05:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by dlbaca7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute and nice doesn't pay the bills honey! I had to learn the hard way about dating a moocher because that's what he is. Stop paying for things and driving him everywhere and see if he still wants to be with you. I promise you he won't. He's just using you because you let him. I've been there and done that and now I have a guy who gives me whatever I want and he has a car of his own. Stand your ground and leave this a*shole! He's never gonna change. Be strong!!!
2006-06-26 04:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by cali_gal716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you created an oxymoron in your description. you said he is "nice" but he makes you pay all the time. That is a polar opposite of nice. To me, this guy sounds like a mooch. If you don't like him acting like that, I'd break up with him because he probably won't change. If you are ok being the breadwinner in the relationship and having someone completely dependent on you, then stay.
2006-06-26 04:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like HE is the one with the problem. Chances are, he didn't have a car or money when you met him. You should stop complaining about what he lacks and be greatful for what he has. After all, he doesn't have material things and you are calling him an asshole so what does that make you!
2006-06-26 04:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first and foremost, there is no ring, so you don't HAVE to do anything. you are choosing to do these things because you want to. because he is nice and cute.
NEWSFLASH: if he were really nice, and if he had money, you wouldn't be paying for everything. i am sure that when you drive him with his friend s and they go out, he pays for one of them if they don't have any money.
i know you may be mesmerized by his looks. but it sounds like you know what to do. if you feel like you are being used, and that he is not really into you unless you can do something for him, then you need to let him go.
on the other hand, i know what it is like to feel obligated to help someone, but only if they are helping themselves. you can still be friends with him if you want, but if you are thinking about a serious relationship, then he needs to take it a little more seriously, don't you think?
p.s. we can tell you what we want, but if you really like him for whatever reason, you are not going to leave him alone, so weigh the pros and cons and go form there.
2006-06-26 05:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by lnhymon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute and nice does not go a long way if he is doing this type of thing to you!! He really doen't care for you as a person. If he did he would do everything he could to please you and make you feel wanted. He's playing you girl!! There are so many option out there!!
2006-06-26 04:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by fungirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur friends are rite.girlfriend is better u do wht will be better 4 u,cos u need to take care of ur self when ever u get married.in dat case u need a husband to take care of u and the family.let him be his only usinng u cos of ur money,the cute has nothin to do with u.so think
2006-06-26 05:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by shebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You describe him as nice in your last sentence, but everything you said prior to that quite simply describes him as a manipulating jerk who is using you.
Your friends are right. Go find yourself someone who is up to your standards, this guy isn't coming close to holding up his end of the deal. At this point, I would even go so far as to say he is taking advantage of you. It wouldn't shock me if he even broke things off himself if you cut off his free cab rides and meal tickets.
2006-06-26 04:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lubers25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you're being taken for granted. Honey get while you can, that man means you NO GOOD. Tell him take his real cute and nice *** somewhere and sit down, bc you need a man and not a boy.
2006-06-26 04:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Free_Spirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with him, he is taking complete advantage of you, you seem like a nice person and there is more to a man than just looks!!!
2006-06-26 04:51:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋