My daughter's birth mother lost 3 of her 4 children because she could not focus and care for more that one child at a time. So, if God does not give us more than we can handle, why was she able to get pregnant more than once?
2006-06-26 04:24:16 · 10 answers · asked by AlongthePemi 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God gave everyone freewill, so that we can make are own chooses, getting pregnant once can be considered an accident but mutable times is a chose. In my opinion God’s not giving her more that she can handle she chose that. But God sent people like you to her children, so that they could be taken care of because she could not. God know that the children could not handle the lifestyle they where headed for, so they where placed in loving and caring environments.
2006-06-26 04:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ray-Ray 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
More than WE can handle....... life is not meant to be experienced alone.
Some people are better at one thing and not others... everyone is good at something, and not so great with something else.
If giving birth made people automatically great parents, then age would guarantee wisdom as well......
Not all old people are wise,
Not all people make good parents,
Not everyone that has two feet can dance,
and not everyone that has a voice can sing...
Life here is conditional: up/down, left/right, poor/rich, kind/mean, lost/found....
There are people who can't give birth or don't, that make wonderful parents..... like you..... everything gets 'handled', just perhaps not as we planned.
When life doesn't go the way we plan, it is because God has better ideas.
Add to that, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger......
2006-06-26 11:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confusing CAN with WILL.
God only gives us what we CAN handle, but he doesn't give us what we WILL handle. Every situation in life is capable of being handled according to the will of God. This doesn't mean that it will be handled as so. Often people drop the ball.
Sometimes, also, what God does is TAKE AWAY. This we are called to handle as well. May I suggest reading the book of Job with a good commentary.
"The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” (Job 1:21)
2006-06-26 12:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Liet Kynes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very good question i was just thinking the same thing the other day. I have never gottena good answer the only thing i can come up with there are women out there that cant have kids so god blessed sopkeone else to bless you with a child they cant take care up. Sounds kinda crazy i know!!!! BUt it could be true
2006-06-26 11:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by tiffany b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because God also gives us free will. This woman didn't have the foresight to: A) get birth control, B) stop having sex, C) use a condom, D) put her children before herself, E) all of the above.
We are defined by our choices, she chose poorly.
2006-06-26 11:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter's birth mother is not responsible for the caring of her children? It is obvious that she is not capable. Why do you have one of her children? Because you are not capable?
No one understands God's view. He gives answers but you must be willing to listen. Some of his answers are not what you would expect or want. Is your daughter one of them?
2006-06-26 11:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she use birth control not being smart at all but there r to many things on the market now for a woman to get pregnant that doesn't want to. I know some things fail but still.
2006-06-26 15:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by sshhorty2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people can't handel a lot of kids and other times people just don't want kids after they have them
2006-06-26 11:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she can handle it but chose not to...
2006-06-26 11:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
screwing around and around and around and around and around
2006-06-27 11:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋