what do you think about internet love?

Question

i have recently found someone via internet. did you have an experience in this situation? how did it work out?

Answer 1

Yes, I did....it was fun, exciting, and I had a great time. There really isn't much that I regret except that I was being blatenly lied to and now that I know that I don't want anything to do with him. I would certainly hope that your goes better and I urge you to ask him about it.... where does he think this is going? I have found that many men are interested in playing online but not in actually finding love...that's just a thought. Best wishes

Answer 2

It's ok. Internet is just a device. Although it's virtual, the people who use it are real people. So virtual world in another word is a kind of prototype of the real world. In the real world you can find good and bad people, so it is in internet.

Besides, love can fall anywhere, everywhere. You'll never know when nor where. It means you can find it there too. But finally you have to meet the person in person if you want to move on into some more serious levels of relationship. Messaging or emails are just the first step. Good luck!

Answer 3

I love the internet.

Oh, wait. That's not what you really meant, is it? LOL Meeting someone on the 'net is just an easy way to find people you may not otherwise encounter in your daily life. If you take the same care as you would with someone you met anywhere else, there's no reason it can't be a good thing. The best advice though is to get the interaction OFF OF the 'net as quickly as you can in order to see how the other person behaves in "real" life.

Answer 4

I once found a man on line, we ended up living together and dating for over 2 yrs. I learned a lot from him and a lot on what to stay away from. Because it is the Internet you just need to be cautious! Love yourself first and take the extra steps in being safe if you do decide to meet! Good luck and always follow ur heart it will lead you the right way!!

Answer 5

I had an internet filing. At first it was wonderful, we emailed and IM each other all the time then we started sending real mail and calling, It was great (but costly). After a year of that we finally decided to meet. He came to my house and stayed for an extended… amount of time (he wouldn’t leave). Then when he did go home we started emailing and calling aging, then that slowed down. Then I received a call collect call for a “state facility“Needless to say, in my highest belief meet people the old fashion way that way you can kinda get a vibe instead of … something else .

Answer 6

I just answered a question similiar to this...this is funny. I have, met someone in an aol chatroom. We switched pictures and knew eachother for about a year talking over the phone. We started to become good friends but we never actually planned to meet someday. Finally one day I was at the mall and he happened to call, turns out he didnt live to far from there so he decided to come to the mall. Ever since then we have been dating..its been my longest relationship...but long distance as well. :-D

Answer 7

Just be careful. The few guys that I talked to online ended up having about 10 other girlfriends. Use a better site like eharmony since most of those people are paying lots of money because they really are looking for someone special. Watch out for match.com.

Answer 8

I had a wonderful relationship with someone online for over a year, it worked great, we met after a year and it was like if we knew each other forever, we spend a week in a hotel by the beach and we had a wonderful time. We broke it off after that because neither of us wanted to move but otherwise everything was great.

Answer 9

Get to know him well. chat everyday for at least a year or more.
It can work, you just have to make sure you are talking on the same terms, not read into things that are not there.
typing sends out your feelings/thoughts before you have a chance to think them out, so you do really get to know a person well through the Internet.

Answer 10

I believe its possible. I'm marrying the man I met on the net, his mom found and married a man she met. Just becarful there are lots of freaks out there. Before meeting him get a web cam and make sure he has one. Get him to turn his on first. I also met his mom before meeting him the reason was he wanted his moms opinion of me and i wanted to find out if he came from a good family or not. It worked out for the best i think.