i am not sure if i should tell her or not, it is killing me badly. on the other hand are man is friend to but he knowns i know but i am trying to hide my self from both of them. she keeps on asking me why he doesn't come visiting her, i don't have any answer 4 her.
2006-06-26 03:54:50 · 22 answers · asked by bunmi o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell her. The sooner the better. She probably won't get mad at you unless it's been a while but even then she'll eventually appreciate that you came to her and let her know what was going on.
2006-06-26 03:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kyleen G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell her! My boyfriend cheated on me and most of my friends knew that something was going on before it happened. And it killed me that they didn't tell me. Being in your friends position you owe it to her to be a true friend and tell her you saw her man with another girl... because if she doesn't find out now she will later and ot will hurt so much more later believe me.
2006-06-26 04:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first. Go after him actually. He doesn't have the right do do that to her. Tell him that he hays to talk to her about it. Trust me it is worse to find out from a friend then it is to find out from the one doing it cause then you really feel cheated. I know. If he won't tell her though you have to because that shouldn't continue. Also you are sure that he was with her and not just hanging out?
2006-06-26 04:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her. she deserve to know the truth about her man. better she feels the pain now than later. because now or later are same. but the pain are not the same. tell her before she fell deeply in love with that man. trust me. tell the truth is the best way although sometimes the truth is hurting.
2006-06-26 04:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by kristi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was u, i would seriously let her find out on her own, i mean what if she doesnt believe u. then she will be pissed at you for telling her hell she might be mad at u for not telling her. but to save u peace of mind i would not tell her trust me depp down she already knows the answer to her question.
2006-06-26 04:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by VivaciousandSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure her boyfriend has deviced an explanation already. that it was his cousin, or it was just a friend. and she'll believe the guy over you, trust me. so stay out of it. she'll hate you either way. cheating is bad. but trusting a man at ur age is simply stupid so she deserves that. you leave it at that ok?
2006-06-26 04:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your friends boyfriend that if he doesn't tell her, you will. Give him that option, if he doesn't take it, too bad!!! If you care about your friend at all, tell her. It is not fun to be the last one to know. And if she finds out later on that you knew all along, she will be mad at you.
2006-06-26 03:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he is cheating on her you should tell her! its going to be devastating for her either way, but in the end your her friend and you have to be there for her, weather your the one to tell her or not and if she gets mad just stay by her she will need you.
2006-06-26 04:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be a friend to her and tell her. The more you avoid her you are hurting yourself as well as your friend. So just tell her.
2006-06-26 03:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, that's y u title her as your friend, your suppose 2 look out 4 her.
2006-06-26 03:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋