i lost the love of my dreams. we were really happy together. we laughed all the time, enjoyed spending time together, and i know i really loved her. and i still love her. but out of nowhere, she broke up with me to get back with her ex boyfriend. i know she made a really bad mistake, and she knows it too. but i really want her back. and im with another chick i really kinda care about, and i dont wanna hurt her. i dont know what to do about either of them. i understand im still young (16), but i think i could spend the rest of my life with my ex if she would just give me the chance. we change eachother. she makes me feel good about myself and makes me want to be a better person. what should i do?
2006-06-26 03:49:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totally concur with ROXANNE , you’re only sixteen, and you have a world of opportunity out there waiting for you. I’m sorry that you got your heartbroken at such a young age, but use that as a learning experience. By the time you really start living your life this bad case of “puppy love” will be a fare memory that you and the “real” love of your life laugh at.
2006-06-26 03:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ray-Ray 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW. OK. Firstly, no 16 is not to young. HOWEVER.... Things can and do change. If your ex wants to get back together with you she needs to break up with the guy she is seeing now. You need to decide what to do about your new girlfriend.Does she deserve to be strung along like this. You sound like you are still obsessing about your ex. Sit back and have a long hard think about what you want and what your ex wants- what she really wants and is prepared to act on. No one can make this decision for you. You will have to choose one or the other and face the consequences of that decision
2006-06-26 03:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by kllr.queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im kind of in the same dilema. i think that you should stay with the chick you are currently with and give her a fair chance. like you said, you are starting to really care about her, and maybe shes the one for you. ((By looking through your myspace, it looks like you two are happy together)) why waist your time on someone who already broke it off?!?! If she comes around and wants to be with you again...if i were you i wouldnt go back to her unless things arent working out with the new chick, i mean if this new chick becomes bad news or something and your ex wants to come back then go ahead. But dont ruin something that has such great potential over someone who has already ****** up...give the new one a fair chance with you if she really cares and you do too.
Alissa Jean
2006-06-26 03:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to her? If she broke up with you to be with another guy then does she really love you? if she really wanted to be with you then why is she then with another guy? things don't just happen out of the blue. why don't you talk to her tell her how you feel and find out the reason she broke up with you.thats the only way you'll know.and if she tells you she doesn't love you anymore than accept it and move on. You're still 16 i'm sure you'll find another girl who will love you just as much as you love her. give yourself some time.people really change when youre that age the person you love now may not be the same type of person you love when youre older. if its meant to be it will happen
2006-06-26 04:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for you to get back with your ex, you are going to have to find out if she wants you back. If she don't then just stay with the other girl. If your ex can't realize that her mistake lost you than you don't need her.
2006-06-26 04:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are really young and you went into a relation too soon. if you really like your ex then leave the girl you are with. it will break her heart but atleast she will know your true feelings.then study hard and try to make something of yourself.if your ex comes back its fine ...but if she doesnt then move on.
2006-06-26 04:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will sound harsh..but i think u shuld just forget ur ex..she chose somebody else over u ..she is not worth it..just move on..
2006-06-26 03:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by RAINGIRL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety your 16. Please just LIVE life. You are going to fall in love MANY MANY times.
2006-06-26 03:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by TATA LA LOCA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋