I was at a bar the other night for my bachorlette party/ birthday party and this guy kept hitting on me. We I had a little to much to drink and things went a little to far and I don't know how to tell my soon to be husband. How do I tell him this happend?
2006-06-26 03:41:49 · 19 answers · asked by Cowgirl Up 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Are you truly sorry?.
Can u swear never to go astray again?.
Then tell God and then tell your husband to be. that you are truly sorry. he should forgive u whole heartedly.. if he doesnt then i believe he is not yours..cos Love covers All sins
2006-06-26 03:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ben A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not ready for marriage. And please dont use the drinking thing. We all know what we are doing when we are drunk when it comes to this stuff unless you were past out then it was not your fault. Did you tell this guy to leave you alone and that you were fixing to get married? I would be glad to know this before I got married to someone. Sounds like the trust thing maybe hard. Maybe he did the same thing that night, who knows. How would you take it if he did this to you? Well, you must tell him. The last thing you want to do is lie or not tell him and he finds out later. Did you guys have sex? Or was it mostly flirting? I wish you luck
2006-06-26 03:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-26 03:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be totally honest with him. Tell him the reason, when, etc. Would you want to keep secrets from you? When planning a life together, there should not be any secrets. While he will be hurt in the beginnin, your love for each will pull you through this ordeal.
2006-06-26 03:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no best way to tell him. This truth is gonna hurt no matter how you do it. I just don't think I would tell him. Unless somewhere down the road he cheats on you then you can tell him.
2006-06-26 04:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you need to ask yourself two questions.
1. Are you really ready to get married?
2. If you think you are then do you really want to begin your marriage based on lies?
Answer these two questions, honestly, and then make a decision. No one here on Yahoo Answers can make it for you.
2006-06-26 03:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by chacalaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i wish for one thing that the answer would not always be i had to much to drink.But you will have to just sit down with him and just tell him, im sure hes going to be upset and maybe not want to marry you.*****
2006-06-26 03:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight up what happened...whose to say that after a few years and a few kids and one night a few drinks with friends. oops...ya did it again...you should give him the respect and the option NOW...not later.
2006-06-26 03:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by seabreeze951 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty obvious that you aren't mature enough for marriage. Not to mention, your level of dedication to your fiance is upsetting. Whether you decide to tell him or not, you are not ready to get married.
2006-06-26 03:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going to have to be honest with him and flat out tell him...the rest is in his hands now.
2006-06-26 03:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋