i was at this party and this guy was talking to me!! i saw my mom spying and it is really pissing me off!!! wat can i do to make sure she never butts in to my life again!!!?????
2006-06-26 03:40:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you cant,thats how parents are.
2006-06-26 03:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your probably 13 to 14 based upon other questions that you have posted. For one you shouldn't be going to parties where alcohol and sex is involved. Your mom is spying on you because she cares and wants to be there when you make a mistake.
2006-06-26 03:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should talk to her, tell her that:
1) You're really not comfortable with her spying on you like that.
2) You feel as if she didn't trust you.
3) Ask her if YOU did anything to make HER NOT trust YOU [if you know that you did skip this].
4) Tell her to put herself in your shoes how would SHE like it if HER MOM did that to her.
5) Tell her that you feel really upset and annoyed that she did that and that you feel that she thinks you're not competent enough to handle certain aspects in you're life. Tell her that you feel that no matter what you do in life, even though you two discuss things or not and you've came to an agreement, she'll do what she wants.
2006-06-26 04:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by juilletangel87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds crazy...but she loves you. Maybe invite her over once in awhile (your room etc). She will then see what really goes on and be at ease. Have a heart to heart with her and tell her you understand she is just trying to keep you out of harms way and to ease her mind you want her to hang out with you and your friednd/s occasionally. I'm telling you this will work. Maybe you should try to make a special date with your mom. Go for a walk, eat, or something neutral you would both enjoy. Let me know if it works and get to know your mom while you can.
2006-06-26 04:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by CulverGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be grateful your mother actually cares about you. My mother always wanted to know about my love life and always tried to help me make the right decisions. 9 times out of 10, she was right. Mom's tend to have a good radar. The first time I brought my now husband home (we'd been dating for about 3 weeks) my knew off the bat that he was right for me and even let him drive her Corvette! I'd never even been allowed to drive it and I'm her daughter! Well, she told me he was perfect for me and we are now happily married. We didn't wait as long as my mom wanted us to but we knew it was right and seeing as how we were both military and up for orders, we didn't want one of us going to Japan and the other in the states!
I have friends whose moms didn't "butt into" their lives. Honestly, they'll tell you this themselves, it's because their parents didn't care about them. Be happy you're loved.
2006-06-26 04:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes moms have been through some stuff when they were young and she just wants the best for you and depending on your age most "guys" are only after one thing anyway (no offense) but that is just how moms are and until you are out of her house that will probably be the way it will it will always be sorry.....at least your mom cares some kids dont have that luxery
2006-06-26 03:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by glenda d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-09 01:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is how parents are. While you do not completely understand now, you will when you become a mom. She is showing you her love to make sure that no one hurts you.
2006-06-26 03:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wants to know what's going on in your life, if you want it to stop maybe you should tell her what's going on instead of her having to spy to find out. Hey, it might help.
2006-06-26 03:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents are just like that.
your probably too easy going,the way i got my parents to get the hell out of my life was every time they did something i didn't like,i just cussed and scared there little sorry asses out and in the end they left me alone.don't be afraid to do sojmething bad to them.
2006-06-26 03:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by thats_hella_hott 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight away that u dint like this.
it will be effective.my friend had similar problem & believe me it worked
2006-06-26 03:47:29 · answer #11 · answered by fusion-x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋