2006-06-26 03:40:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hhmmm... lets see HAVE SEX!!!
2006-06-26 03:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by HOT LINN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really sure you want to throw the wonderful pearl of your virginity to the pigs? It is one thing that you can never get back. And you will always remember the one whom you did it.
Call me "old school" but I think that saving yourself for marriage still works especially given all of the undesired consequences:
1. Pregnancy
2. Having to consider an abortion if the condom breaks or you forgot to take the Pill
3. STDs
4. HIV
5. The Emotional letdown because it will hurt the first time.
Unleashing a floodgate of physical sexual need that will occur may cause you to lose all self-control.
I saved myself for marriage and I'm glad I did. Sex and my conscious is even better because I don't have to worry about some woman from my past coming up to my wife and saying that "I did your husband."
But ultimately, that choice is up to you.
Choose but choose wisely.
2006-06-26 10:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by obiwanshu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that you really love and best is a virgin too, but at least has an idea of what they are doing. Don't rush it either that's the worse thing to do. I was with my first for 5 months before we finally did it and it was me who finally decided that I wanted to do it. He took it slow and it was wonderful.
2006-06-26 10:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by sexylilgirl_idealmgf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to lose your virginity? It's a virtue to be a virgin. One day, when you're married, you won't want to lose your virginity; then, you will have to lose it, as by nature. Anyone who wants to lose his or her virginity is not thinking straight. It's a precious commodity to be a virgin. Hold onto it.
2006-06-26 10:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by newchenel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems the operative word in your question is "IF".
"IF" you do want to lose it....sex with another is the ONLY WAY.
Maybe the question you should ask YOURSELF....is why you are asking the question.
If you can't eliminate the "IF" part....then don't worry about the "HOW"....because apparently you're not quite ready.
2006-06-26 10:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by GOOD ANSWER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off ..exactly how old are you?..because if you are under 17 you shouldnt be thinking about it...secondly GET YOURSELF EDUCATED ABOUT SEX....THAT MEANS ALL THE STDS, BIRTH CONTROL, CONDOMS, SIGNS OF PREGNANCY, WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF ALL THE STDS ...EVERYTHING..dont just think you can open your legs and you will be SAFE from all of the responsibilities and consequences that sex entails. Trust me sex is NOT FREEDOM...once you open your legs it will be SO HARD to close them. So are you sure you can handle the WORLD OF SEX?.....if you have doubts you need to leave it alone.....
2006-06-26 10:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by outspokenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready it will happen, first get a lover, get tested and lose it or use your hands(lol) How old are yu anyway?I knw someone
2006-06-26 10:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make sure its with the right person because the more you want sex the more willing you will be to do it with anyone, just remember it can totaly mess up your life i got my ex pregnant n it really hit me hard so just remember that in mind
2006-06-26 10:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't plan 2 lose it or it wont be special, jus meet some1 really nice an go wiv da flow, who now wot will happen
2006-06-26 10:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by doc19872004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your virginity to the one you love
2006-06-26 10:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by boyang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a partner that is willing and able and go hard **** like rabbits
Use a condom
2006-06-26 10:43:13 · answer #11 · answered by kiwi_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋