2006-06-26 03:27:21 · 19 answers · asked by Mahogany D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-26 03:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he already knows! But, knowing and being told are two completely different things! Why would you want to cause him more pain? Don't allow the guilt and anger you are feeling for yourself to push you into doing more harm. You have walked away from him, (Good call, by the way) let him heal and move on with his life. These are the little things that define us and bring us into the reality of adulthood. Move on! Find a release for your guilt in the form of exercise or work. Don't hurt him anymore! Good luck little one and be safe!
2006-06-26 03:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by wonderingmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Confession does clear the soul, while it would make YOU feel better, it would make him feel worse. So I guess just reverse it around and ask yourself "Would I want him to tell me that he cheated on me? If the answer is Yes, then tell him, if it's no, then don't.
2006-06-26 03:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's always good 2 b honest, but sometimes it's best 2 wait b4 u tell someone news like that, it all depends on how he feels about the whole break up, if he's depressed than i suggest u wait a couple of months b4 u tell him, if he's ok than go ahead and tell him.
2006-06-26 03:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did not tell him before you broke up with him, don't tell him now. You know why because if you decided to go back it will certainly ruin your chances. And besides what good would it do now.
2006-06-26 03:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah what's done is done. Besides there's no need because you two are separated. I find it more vindictive if you tell him now. So leave it as is, unless he somehow brings it up. If that's the case, then let him have it.
2006-06-26 03:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by Wonderlick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you feel better tell him. But rember he is going to be upset and may say things about you to others and you may end up with a bad reputation.
2006-06-26 03:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already dumped him, why rub his nose in your infidelity? to confess now just to ease your conscience won't make things better between the two of you & would only make you look spiteful & loose. Let it go - leave him alone.
2006-06-26 03:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.... You have already broken up with him, and unless you want to hurt him more, then you shouldn't say anything.... Nothing good could come of it.....
2006-06-26 03:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by I Have Questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. If he wants to get back with you later on, then I think he should know.
2006-06-26 03:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by xnrueda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no unless you want him to think worse of you and remember girl that ast that you did to your man is a refection of just how ulgy you are,
2006-06-26 03:33:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋