I like a girl and she likes me, but she needs time to think about what she really wants. What do I do?

Question

We both want to date, but I don't wanna rush her. She wants some time to decide what she wants, since she's confused. I don't know what to do..

Like the top says, we're both head over heels for each other, but she wants to know me first. We've known about each other for 2 years, but just started talking recently. I've liked her for a year and a half, and she's the most beautiful girl ever. She's nice and smart and really fun to talk to, but her ex treated her like crap and I'm the guy that's tryin to make it up to her. That's why she needs to think, so if you could, help me out!

Answer 1

Give her time...if she really does want to date like you said, then I know after going through it again and again with herself and taking her time, she WILL come around. It's really sweet that you're not wanting to rush her; way to go.

Answer 2

First of all, why is she so confused? Sounds like she is not sure about you. Keep talking to her and find out whats in her head. Take your time if you really want this girl. Be patient and time will tell where this is all going.

Answer 3

Give her some time I was in the same boat as she is right now and you should give her time so she absolutely knows what she wants and won't end up hurting you later on by changing her mind.

Answer 4

Im going though the exact same thing but with a twist ii was going out with my ex girlfriend for just over 2 months and foolishly ended it with her, recently ive been trying to get back with her and this time im really ready to commit to her, she says she likes me to, but my so called best mate is trying it on with her and now she isnt sure what she wants because she dosent want to hurt either of us and atm im really angery with my now ex best mate, shes also saying she needs time to think about what she wants but im hearing that shes going to follow her heart and im the one in her heart so the advise im giving to you is that just as you think things are hitting rock bottom she will lift you into the clouds. youve just got to wait for her but remember there are limits on how long you can wait. hope this helps

Answer 5

Just give her time. Also, remember you can't wait forever. If she takes longer than expected she is stopping you from meeting other good girls. But you are right, you shouldn't ever rush her and that is sweet! Good luck and I hope you guys hook up :)!

Answer 6

I think that if you really wanted to date someone enough that you wouldn't need time to think about it. Either there is a connection or there isn't.

Answer 7

You're in luck!
Don't rush things now, let her some space to think, but don't disapear completly. Be there for her, and be extra sweet.

Answer 8

Give her time to think cause once she has made a decision its not likely to change and you can then decide to follow her in her decision or not

Answer 9

Without playing games, don’t be available 100% of the time or let your life be an open book. A man that comes on too strong or doesn’t have outside interests will scare a woman away just as much as it would if the circumstances were reversed. Read here http://AttractAnyWoman.emuy.info/?0d6A

Women don’t want to feel as though they are completely responsible for your happiness and that is what it feels like when the other person has no outside interests. Men who are overeager or jump when the woman says jump are the ones who are more likely to end up in the friend zone. This doesn’t mean that you should play the game of not calling for a few days; it means that you should set healthy boundaries until you both naturally find a spot for the other in your lives.

Answer 10

I am a boy like you and i think you should let her think enough about her private life and just this.
Good luck