i was thinking today how much i want a new baby the guy i want to have the baby with has told me he doesnt want anymore kids he has 5 already i was wondering if i should just go off my birth control pills have sex with him and not tell him unless i get pregnant. what do you think
2006-06-26 03:13:12 · 14 answers · asked by lkng4lv14892@verizon.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u think that he is the right person for u?if so keep it secret that u r not using pills no more n give him the "good news" that u r carrying
2006-06-26 03:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has told you he doesn't want any more children so why would you secretly stop taking the birth control pills? That would be wrong of you to purposely get pregnant by a man that has children and doesn't want anymore. Then what? He has to pay for something he had no idea was going to be part of his expenses. Keep taking the pill and find a man that wants children.
2006-06-26 03:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do that then he'll hate you ( come off your pills and not tell him). Guys hate to be lied to and then he won't be able to trust you.I think that you should stress the need and the want you have to him about getting pregnant and having a baby and that he has five kids but YOU want to have another with him.
I also think that you should get married!
2006-06-26 03:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by q_ri_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do stay on the pill. If you have a baby that he does not want he will not stay with you and you will be left alone to raise the baby.
2006-06-26 03:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do this please, you can always find someone that does want a child with you. Respect this mans wishes!!! Not to mention don't hurt a child and bring them to this cruel world without a father figure and against this mans wishes. They will only live a fatherless depressing life!!! Think of this childs life before your selfish irrational desires!
2006-06-26 03:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me your being selfish and thinking about only your need to have a baby. If you do what your talking about don't come crying to Yahoo answers when his *** leaves you pregnant.
2006-06-26 03:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if having kids is a deal breaker for you, you should look for someone that is willing to give you what you need ( kids) My opinion is that it would be morally and fundamentally wrong to 'trick' him into having kids with you, he might resent you and your child.
I wish you luck.
2006-06-26 03:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by ilfecoach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not right! how would you like it if he wanted a baby with you and you said no, but then he had sex with you and got you pregnant on purpose?..... think bout that....
2006-06-26 03:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Miss X♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell......why not. What's one more mouth to feed ? I mean, it's not like YOU or HIM is going to be paying for it anyway, right? THAT'S what 'public aide' is there for.
Sounds like BOTH you idiots need to be 'fixed'.
Whatever happened to - If you can't feed 'em, don't breed 'em ??
2006-06-26 03:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by barhopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be with a man that wants to have baby...
2006-06-26 03:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋