i am a gurl with dark hair, eyes, skin(cherokee and white), full lips, and a thick gurl.. and seems guys dont like that...seems they like the lil skinny blonde gurls...im also a gurl who loves to laugh and to make ppl laugh but some guys look at me like im stupid...then if i try to be serious they tell me i need to be more outgoing and talk more and try having more fun...i dont know...im not really looking to change for someone but if i like it maybe ill change for myself for the better...who knows...but looks wise i dunno the first thing bout it...lol...well, help me please ..i dont try to impress guys but i wonder why none of them like me
2006-06-26 02:54:03 · 9 answers · asked by curious girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't change for anyone! You sound pretty nice to me. Maybe you just looking at the wrong guys... Love will find you! Its just a matter of time. When we try to hard to find whats wrong with ourselves, we should stop and think that maybe somehings wrong with everybody else :D.
Hang in there beautiful! The guy who appreciates you is the one worth waiting for!
2006-06-26 03:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Reality 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and don't try too hard. You just need to wait for the right guy to come along. A girl's smile and personality are more of a turn on than the color of her hair or her other features. A girl who can have a fun conversation is sexier than any stuck up pain in the butt anytime. If you can have fun with another person without sex... it just gets better when you do get more intimate.
Dave
2006-06-26 10:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dave D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choice
I’d rather have the thought of you
To hold against my heart,
My spirit to be taught of you
With west winds blowing,
Than all the the warm caresses
Of another love’s bestowing,
Or all the glories of the world
In which you had no part.
I’d rather have the theme of you
To thread my nights and days,
I’d rather have the dream of you
With faint stars glowing,
I’d rather have the want of you,
The rish, elusive taunt of you
Forever and forever and forever unconfessed
Than claim the alien comfort
Of any other’s breast.
O lover! O my lover,
That this should come to me!
I’d rather have the hope of you,
Ah, Love, I’d rather grope for you
Within the great abyss
Than claim another’s kiss–
Alone I’d rather go my way
Throughout eternity.
2006-06-26 09:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by loveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are fat. Life is not fair and if you want to get guys to start dating you, you must work hard to lose weight. Men are shallow and un-like women, personality is not high on their list. I bet you have a great personality, most overweight people do, but once you loose all that fat and starting looking gorgeous, you will find yourself being stuck-up.
Stop working on your personality, it's fine. Stop trying to please men so that they will be attracted to you, they will only use you. Lose all the weight and get self-confidence and men will start hitting you up overwhelmingly.
Note: I too use to be fat and worked hard to lose the weight. It's possible. I know...when you depress, you eat. You eat because no boys like you. No boys like you because your fat. Your fat because you eat. It's circular. Good Luck!
2006-06-26 10:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Inquisit 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
By thick do you mean...large. If so, I'm sorry, but it's gonna be hard.
Try to get some of your friends to help you out.
2006-06-26 09:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by dr_salvadore@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like who you are.
2006-06-26 14:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself , you sound nice to me
2006-06-26 09:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by stuart m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever is it, it must be vgood, for me, i like ur
2006-06-26 14:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by ashok k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your confused, and now so am I
2006-06-26 09:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋