i have a new friend who has just confessed to me that she has never had a boyfriend because she is too shy. Is that normal and how can i help her?Only serious answers please.
2006-06-26 02:46:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-28 03:28:01 · update #1
That is definately normal. Women these days are being attacked on so many fronts. The chief one being self esteem. What she really needs to do is have confidence in herself. Men are drawn to that. She needs to feel comfortable with her body, and with her personality. If she doesn't know what to say when around others, that is alright. If she is confident, the people she is around won't be able to help talking to her. She can learn all of the other stuff on the go.
2006-06-26 02:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
ok shorty.I think u should talk to her 4 real.And take her some place way boy go like the mall. Make sure she don't get to shy.Fix her up good nice cloths and everything.And be by her side to give her a lil push.
Oh yea shorty don't push her to hard. Don't make her do anything she don't wanna do cuz it can crash ya'll friendship.Ok shorty
2006-06-26 03:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's is really a situation, the best you can do is to help her by getting her together with a good guy that won't hurt her, at that age it is critical for her to have a good guy because otherwise she could be traumatized for life, just be a good friend and don't let her go out with any loser that wants to get into her pants.
2006-06-26 02:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by RICARDO M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is anything worng with that. There os nothing wrong with being shy. The best that you can do is be her friend and introduce her to nice people. Let nature take it from there!!
2006-06-26 02:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by b_iceman2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea , its possible... maybe she is shy... or is she from a reserved family?
Shes just 20 yrs old. Yes its normal not to have a boyfriend yet/.
2006-06-26 02:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her and let her know that's okay and show her some really nice men and maybe she won't be shy
2006-06-26 02:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by candycane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal, try hanging out with a couple of guys, not necessarily a double date but just hanging out, once she meets a guy that will show her attention she'll change little by little.
2006-06-26 02:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she want a boyfriend?
(I'm gonna assume she does.)
1.Find a guy (or guys.)
2.Ask him (or them) if any of them like her. If yes (#3) no (#4.)
3.Make one of them ask her out.
4.Find another guy (or guys.)
Hope this helps you out.
2006-06-26 02:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by dr_salvadore@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with your friend, it takes sum of us longer and do your best to coach her, ppl myt take advantage!
2006-06-26 02:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
i am love.u can mail me at love_me077@yahoo.com
2006-06-26 02:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by loveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋