I work at a car dealership helping the sales team. A guy in service is into me and gave me his number, and now we spend all day at work texting each other with messages about what we would do to each other in various spots around work... I am really turned on by him, but I know we aren't supposed to date within the company. What do you think? I'm 20. He's 33. And good-looking.
2006-06-26 02:21:58 · 18 answers · asked by lizwatson109 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not a mechanic... He's IN CHARGE of the service department...
2006-06-26 02:53:38 · update #1
I immediately think you're stupid, but I'm wrong. A majority of individuals actually find their spouses at the work place, however in your situation, it sounds like all you want is to give the man head. So give him head, stupid.
2006-06-26 10:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy_Man_in_Minneapolis 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi, There's nothing wrong with dating a co-worker, but it's very hard to be honest with your work. You're suppose to work not doing your private stuff during working hours. This is temptation and I can tell that it will be hard for you to stop. Looking at his age and you say he's good looking, never judge a book by it's cover. If he really loves you he would wait until it's lunch or after work or free time. If the boss finds out he will kick you out. He is a bit too old for you.
Good luck,
Rowee
2006-06-26 02:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His he worth the troubles ie loosing your job and priority? if your answer is yes, go ahead but if not let the issue drop cos you will only get hurt in the process. I had a similar case like yours but then i got to understand that love conquers all things,my parents tried to disown me bcos of my bf. and i asked myself his he worth the pains am going through? and then i knew he loved me sincerely and am still with him right now. We could die for each other. My parents and others that were criticising us are now happy 4 us.Am 21 and he is 29. So that is the power of LOVE. Good luck.
2006-06-26 02:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no! Never date a co-worker! If it doesn't work out then you're stuck working with this guy! At the least, it will make it uncomfortable. At most, it can make it a hostile environment.
Besides, all it sounds like is a sexual interest on both sides.
2006-06-26 02:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by alisha_kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't supposed to date within the company? Says who? While I'd not be doing what you're texting at work, outside of work, you are your own person.
2006-06-26 02:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a 20 year old, don't you think you can do better than a 33 year old mechanic? Find someone your own age who doesn't work with you, you'll thank me later.
2006-06-26 02:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way. Can you afford to be without a paycheck because you are found out? Can you pay your bills if your found out? You will be found out, so decide now if its worth it. If so, then go for it, but remember that each moment you spend texting is considered cheating your employer out of time they are paying you for.
2006-06-26 02:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on no account have yet maaaaaaaan did i want to, back whilst i grew to become into unmarried there grew to become into this one guy...had the biggest weigh down on him, lord it grew to become right into a killer, took a lot of artwork to will myself out of it, sheer dedication to no longer come directly to him or touch him or get in his face, flirt, etc. yet i did it by way of fact i'm going to be dammed if i became the laughingstock of the employer or any form of springerbait loser, no way, i'm an stylish woman, so i gritted my tooth and have been given over it for sure, i wouldn't in any respect try this...EVER no longer well worth it
2016-12-09 01:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should still talk to him and maybe go out on dates, don't let work innerfer with your love life! Good Luck!!!
Christine
2006-06-26 02:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he worth losing your job over? If so, then go for it. If he is just going to be a flavor of the month, then move on and keep your job.
2006-06-26 02:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋