he has this x girlfriend that is a pest it seems impossible to get rid of her. she is constantly in our business and he allows her to get away with hurting us especially me and i find that he always has an excuse for her presents and her calls. i feel im being cheated on but cant prove a thing. we been together for 5yrs now and so has she(she has been in our business for that long). i discovered that he had called her from my mobile and lied about it, when i confronted he had another excuse i tried to gether the courage to call her and find out what is happening but chickened out last minute. am i being played.
2006-06-26 01:13:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes.
2006-06-26 01:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by ms♥ catepillarஐღஐஐღஐ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion yes he is using you. There is no reason this ex of his should be coming around and she would not unless he was encouraging her to do so.
I am sorry but there is no excuse for his behavior and his respect for you, well he has none.
I would not call her because I am sure she will not be honest anyway. I would if I were you tell him you will not be made a fool of and end it and find you someone you can trust and who respects you.
2006-06-26 08:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter wether he has or hasnt had sex with his ex because hes treating you like s**t and you are allowing it do you just enjoy pain? Dont you think you deserve to be treated as the main priority dump him and work on your self esteem you are worth more than second best. This guy wants his cake and eat it too and id take a baseball bat to that B***h .Then she wouldnt be bugging my man or me.
2006-06-26 09:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Treat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesssss
2006-06-26 09:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello... First off, let me tell you that I am sorry for you troubles... Secondly, you need to know that if there are no children involved, there is absolutely NO REASON he should have any contact with his ex.... he is with you now, and he needs to understand that if he wants you, then he needs to leave her alone, and she needs to leave you alone. Presents and phone calls??? Unacceptable.
Women also have a knack for knowing when they are being played, and if you feel he is cheating on you, odds are it's true....
If you want to be with this guy, and he wants to be with you, he needs to cut ties with her, otherwise, you are just being played.....
I hope I helped....
2006-06-26 08:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by I Have Questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who keeps in touch with his x gf and allows her to run roughshod over his present gf is a total ahole. Dump the idiot and get a guy who knows how to lay down the law with his x's
2006-06-26 09:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel like your being cheated and you dont have feelings for him anymore, then I would break things off. But until you have proof you should talk to your boyfriend on who he wants, his ex or you!!
2006-06-26 08:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Strawberrieluver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god!!this is hard qns...let me gif u sum suggestion:
1) confront the gals!!ur bf r being too mch!!he shld gt tis clear tt u r the 1 is wif him for 5 yrs...nt the x gf!!hw can he let the x gf to come in btw you all??
2)for me, i think he is nt ready to go into bgr...he mke use of u n his x!!for the best advise,BREAK UP... i knw is hrd to let him go cos u n him haf been 5 yrs le...but u ask urself, is tt fair for u??
he alredi lie to u= nt honest...tts show tt he gt sumtink hidin to u!!mayb outside he gt another gf??
god'll bless u so dun wori...u n i knw mayb sum ppl ans ur qns agreed tt he is NOT the 1 for u!!
2006-06-26 08:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by bishan_ite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, maintain distance from him and doesn't made any feelings 4 him go out with ur friends and everytime be in enjoying mood because life is small.
2006-06-26 08:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont jump into a conclusion....maybe they just turned out to be friend...sometimes guys li because they are too scared that you'd get mad if he tells the thruth....just be cool while talking to him..tell him it's better to be honest now and tell you the truth...you woudn't be angry than you'd find it out on someone else...
2006-06-26 08:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by vocalistah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break off with your bf and business split pls is bad for u also
2006-06-26 08:19:41 · answer #11 · answered by Vis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋