I have a more active sex drive then my BF, but he is always online looking at porn and jacking off when Im not around. He knows Im always up for sex but he says. "He would just rather not have to deal with thinking about me." What should I do?
2006-06-26 00:56:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a more active sex drive then my BF, but he is always online looking at porn and jacking off when Im not around. He knows Im always up for sex but he says. "He would just rather not have to deal with thinking about me." What should I do? I love him and this hasent always been how are sex life is. What can I do to get his interest back in sex and not just self gratafication?
2006-06-26 01:15:00 · update #1
I love him and this hasent always been how are sex life is. What can I do to get his interest back in sex and not just self gratafication?
2006-06-26 01:15:50 · update #2
Give him an ultimatum. Its either going to be you or the jacking off. If he chooses the jacking off then leave him for a guy who can bang you whenever and whereever you want.
2006-07-03 10:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Rex Finklestein 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your bf is in a fantasy world, that you'll never be able to fulfill. Dump him, honey. There are players... and some that are so over-sexed they have to satisfy themselves sometimes in addition to the real thing... but to be totally absorbed and passing up the real deal is NOT normal. He's looking for something he'll never find. Don't tie your life to his... he's a loser.
Dave
2006-06-26 01:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dave D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me, that your are both paying a lot of attention to your sex life, how is everything else? do you guys still talk? go out?
Anyway, He may have a porn addiction, in that case he should really se a specialist, about the subject. as these addiction may be caused by several things that will affect you relationship.
2006-06-29 08:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Priest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can only be one out of three reasons. A: He may be gay, B: He has an addiction to porn, or C: He's impotent. Either way, you should leave him. Ive got the magic stick. Holla.
2006-06-26 01:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a real big proble, that can lead up to an addiction and it could cause him to maybe even start calling sex lines to have phone sex with other women.. and i think thats its even cruel that he doesnt hardly sleep with you, i think basically you need to talk with him about that
2006-06-26 01:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by boehlingsfam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offcourse
2006-06-26 02:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't find you attractive, have you done something to look more sexy lately?, if you really love him try to make him want you, maybe by losing some weight and dressing sexy he will come on to you.
2006-06-26 01:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by RICARDO M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he tries to put you aside! Do you really like him? Why not stop the relation and find someone you could communicate better!
2006-06-26 01:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal, best solution is to talk to him about it...you should be able to talk to your partner about this stuff...it's the only way to enhance and maintain your intimate life
2006-06-26 01:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to watch porn with him and he will have you instead of jacking off, i think it will work, because u will be there with him, try it several times and I'm sure it will work
2006-06-26 01:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by diamond maker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋