I`m in love with two different guys. Who feel the same. They don`t know eachother. I was with my ex for over a year and we broke up because he had to move away and we barely talked for months. I`ve been with my recent boyfriend since December. But my ex left his home and we can talk more. I love them both and don`t want to hurt whomever I don`t choose. Please help me.
2006-06-26 00:11:40 · 10 answers · asked by star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i break up with my recent boyfriend i`m scared he`ll hurt himself. what should i say to him so he won`t hurt himself?
2006-06-26 00:59:08 · update #1
either way someone will get hurt. just don't follow your heart, I find that by doing that you choose wrong, follow your gut it's always on target.
2006-06-26 00:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that you can be in love with 2 people at the same time. Sounds like you're in love with one and maybe hanging onto the other one in case your love doesn't work out. You need to be honest with yourself and these guys. Someone is going to get hurt, and if by chance these 2 guys find out about each other, that person getting hurt is going to be you!!!
2006-06-26 07:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by ladyrn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that hon. You need to sit down and think about your feelings. How does each guy make you feel? Sit down with a pen and paper and write a pros and cons list for each of them. Something you need to think about regarding your ex, could it just be that you're more used to him than the new guy? That was the case in my situation. I hope that helps :) I know it sucks to be stuck in a situation like that.
2006-06-26 07:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by hamadryad766 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai i am jameel{jammu_sher@yahoo.com} first of all u decide that u r in a position to love a person or not by loving both the persons at a time u r spoling their feature one thing i wanna to tell u that if u really love both ask them how much they love u instid of miss understanding and one who had left u that will never come back just leave ex and appoint that new one ok good luck for ur love and for both of ur feature if any contact me
2006-06-26 07:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by jammu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can talk to each one and tell them the way you fell because you are hurting them with out want it to and the way you see the way they act and you know who love you for real.or take time of from them the way you look things the way they are.
2006-06-26 07:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by amada000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love with two people? Not possible.
2006-06-26 07:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lotte T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to think carefully. you can search a bout them and talk with men or women who had this experience i am sorry for you i cant help you at this time but promis think a bout that.
2006-06-26 07:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by rezayadgar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test them n see who loves you the most n go out wit the person.
2006-06-26 12:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by Arnold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good that you were not married with the recent person.
you have to talk to both of the guys, maybe they understand.
2006-06-26 07:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by monoo_76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't we have any other things to answer?
2006-06-26 08:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋