Why is my man accussing me of finding someone else.?

Question

Im four months pregnant and i live with my boyfriend that i've only known for five months,but lately his behavior has changed he's been accussing me of finding someone else and he's been getting mad about liltle things and staying mad for two days. I don't know whats the problem and i don't think he cares about me and when theres a problem hes always getting my family involved which is immature hes been accussing me of sleeping with this guy i knew before his time. he also told me if i dont give the baby his last name i better find another father. my least ended the last of june and now i no longer have my own place and lastnght he told me its not his baby and i was so shocked and upset i cused him out and called him a ***** and he called me one so many times after that its like he changed in the last few days he treats me like **** maybe he found someone else and he don't want the responsibility I'm thinking of having an abortion and i'm definitely leaving him even if i decide to keep

Answer 1

Smiles 'n' Tears, Giggles 'n' Laughs, Late nite calls 'n' Cute fotographs, ill b rite here till da day of ma death best friends forever till ma very last breath!!

Answer 2

He said "if i dont give the baby his last name i better find another father". huh! Discerning the lines, he do accept that he is the father. U know, its normal for him to bhave like dat. He will be a father soon and had mixed feelings. I will be a father soon, could i handle the responsibility? He asked of himself and the uncertainties were made manifest by his seemingly irrational moves. As a man and a Conservative one, i could feel the same way your bf would especially dat he knew of other men b4 him but dat doesn't mean he no longer loved u. Gve him the assurance dat past is past and the baby u are carrying is his and had been der because of the emotional entanglement that u and him did out of love. Do not let the baby be out in dis world without a father. Right now the baby could hear and feel ur anxieties. don't let it happen as it would affect the baby so much. As 2 ur bf gve him the usual love, understanding and affection dat u have before and soon he will realize his fault. let him got that guilt dat without him, your love child will be a mess in dis world. Dats 4 now. Be good and kept on praying.

Answer 3

He sounds like he's panicking about his coming responsibilities and is trying to get you to absolve him of them by breaking up with him.

Either it's a temporary thing as he gets used to the sudden change in his life, or he's too immature to do so and will end up leaving one way or another.

Of course, in the mean time you may decide you don't want to be with him anyway.

Answer 4

I hope you can work out your problems, but your man sounds like he's not ready to be a father and may have met someone else himself. Good Luck.

Answer 5

hello its really hard to find a really true person who love you and treat you good. sorry to say mostly are just time passed and enjoy and see other lady. but its better you kick him.
and don't worry you got the same person just like you.


bye take care

Answer 6

he's too controlling and paranoid...you shouldn't have to put up with all of his demands,threats, accusations and insults - you deserve better....if he's accusing you of finding someone else tell him straight out that you aren't, and if he can't accept it and trust you than this sort of insecure behavior is going to ruin your relationship, dont let it, either he has to believe it or things aren't going to work

Answer 7

Whatever you do, please resolve to protect your baby and yourself. At four months, your baby just like a born infant, just smaller and needing a little more time safe inside his mommy. You can see what he or she looks like here:

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Answer 8

Complex situation, and i don't have enough details to help... But we can talk about it if u want. You can contact me, my id is in my profile.
Good luck, sincerely.

Answer 9

maybe its drugs ?

i had a friend that started acting really odd like that and geting mad over dumb things and turned out he was on drugs

Answer 10

well I guess he is not ready for the baby, if it is his at this stage and that all this happend all of a sudden, unless it was planned.