Just how much pain can one heart endure, loosing someone that has become a part of one's life....
2006-06-25 23:17:19 · 24 answers · asked by mumtaz 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The saying in time ,all wounds are healed ( has come to mind) .To lose a loved one is painful , have done that and loved again . Now when my son was killed , I took one day at a time and can honestly say I'll always hurt . But things happen for a reason that we may not understand . After my son death ,I had a lot of family support and still do . Losing a child is the worse lost I've had . But doesn't mean your pain is less . A part of your life is your key word ! He is a part that is gone and you need to start again to live .
2006-06-25 23:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 7⤊ 2⤋
If you could measure pain, and endurance of pain, I have endured the ocean full of it in my life. But I want to say this to you, your heart WILL endure this pain, and you will be better beore long. Time takes away the hurt! Good Luck, my friend!
2006-06-26 06:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you will ever get over someone that you once loved and probably still love. This is someone who will be in your mind forever. I don't know why you are apart now but for whatever reason let it be if things didn't work out they will never work out. Keep looking there is someone out there who you will love more that this guy, and you will only think about how it would have been with him once in a blue moon. There will be pain for quite a while but don't sit and think about it. Go have a good wime with your friends and keep your mind off of him for now.
2006-06-26 06:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Durty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..it depends on how bad he hurt you. if he cheated u then ur heart will turn to stone as far as he is concerned..if he accused u of something then he might have thought there was some enough facts to do that..he might be hurt too..id takes two hands to clap and two to tango...
if u think he really loves u then dont let him go...but if u think he doesnt love u then u better tell him to make way for others.....
i hope u havtn actually lost him already....
I will pray for you....
2006-06-27 01:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by gentle_cute_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes don't loose faith.I got over him for about one year.It was the most difficult year in my life but now it is over.You just have to focus on something else, something interesting that will help you to have fun.Go out, have fun and meet new people.Hanging out with them will help you to relax and also you will hear different opinions.
2006-06-26 06:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do want to pain your heart so much?
You will forget everything after some time.
Time is the solution for everything.
Loosing is one thing, but loneliness is horrible.
2006-06-26 06:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age old, but still true. This too shall pass. Time heals all wounds.
(and for a bit of humor to cheer you up, I saw a sign in a shoe repair shop: Time wounds all heels
2006-06-26 06:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is AMAZING how much pain the human body can take. I have had MANY heartaches from lost love...... and from my sister dieing............sometimes, I would curl up in a ball and hide in bed for days or weeks.......crying, literally the WHOLE time...... and feeling like my heart would explode.............. and it's so crazy...............you WILL get over him............ One love I had, that I lost........ you know what ? I can't remember his last name............ lol.............. the body will replace bad memories with good ones ... over time......... I know it's hard to believe now.......... and, sadly, u will suffer for a while......... but you WILL survive it.
2006-06-26 06:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no pain so great time can not heal it.. there's no heart so badly broken love can not mend it .. give it time and in time you will love again.. then the pain will fade and just be a dull ache to remind you time and again that it is great to love over and over again..
my heart went out to you but believe me, you'll get over it.. in time
2006-06-26 06:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by katrina_ponti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sure it pains, and pains real hard. But then, life goes on and you cannot stop it. Life is so simple, we make it difficult.
Well, try not making it difficult for yourself then if you are in that pain.
Cheers!
2006-06-26 06:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by *Darling*Detective* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋