2006-06-25 22:49:03 · 19 answers · asked by Christy 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
If you are happy the way you are, do not change anything for a man. It is not a good sign that he wants you to change the way you look, if he seeks someone with more weight he should find another person and you seek someone who accepts you the way you are.
Similarly staying out, it seems he is a control freek, he needs to learn trust and clearly he hasnt. If there is no reason why he shouldnt trust you then it is control. You have your own life, neither control nor be controlled.
best wishes tim
2006-06-25 22:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little possessive to me. I think I would reassess the engagement. Are you sure you want someone controlling you? He wants you to gain weight so no one else will look at you. He gets angry/scared when you stay out late because he does not trust you, and he is insecure. I had one like this. I bailed after a year.
2006-06-26 05:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by PariahMaterial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister did this with her second husband. He made her gain weight so other men wouldn't find her as attractive and he controlled her going out to the point where she couldn't even go shopping alone. After a year of marriage, she found out he was living with another woman when he went out of town for "business" and was doing the same thing to her. Dump this guy...things will only get worse.
2006-06-26 06:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are out late at night, I think your husband just wants you to put on weight so that you don't get someone else when you are out. I think he is a bit insecure. You are probably a very good looking woman and he just wants to keep you for himself.
2006-07-01 18:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate.
There is a hint of insecurity in the relationship on both parties.
Coming Home late, worry some people, especially when the reason/rational is unknown, and fear sets in.
Communicate/
2006-06-26 06:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mac C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you staying out late, if your engaged? The wording of your question leads me to believe you are...challenged.
2006-06-26 10:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by MARIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the same christy that asked what to do to show your man you not cheating because he gets mad. Now this? Get a grip, move out and move on girl! He soooo ain't worth that amount of s***!
2006-06-26 06:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a control freak.Sorry i reckon you should dump him.He should love you for what you are thats what must have attracted him to you.Surprised the alarm bells are not ringing
2006-06-26 05:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him into touch, is he some kind of control freak. He should love you for how you are, and no realtionship can survive if you dont trust each other.
2006-06-26 05:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should trust u and not kick off cos u stay out late with ur friends.every1 needs time with their friends
2006-06-26 05:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by monamena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋