first after fight. and i cant live without him he also said he loves me but he never calls me first. i onlly wait for his call till one day then other wise i call him. i cant live without him.
2006-06-25 22:41:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
fighting is in the air. Give yourself some time.
2006-06-25 22:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of reasons why men do not call first... pride, or maybe they just want to get into their cave... you probably hurt him much... read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." You'll understand why men are what they are.
Piece of advise.... if you think you are on the right side, sometimes, wait for him to call. It isn't healthy to show the man that you'll go nuts without him. Sometimes, it is best to let him wonder what's going on in your mind. If he truly loves you, he'll call. Don't be the one to go after him always. Remember, too much or too little of something isn't good and healthy.... and that my dear is true to relationships too. Showing him that you love him so much is not a guarantee that he'll stay with you. For all you know, maybe the reason why he doesn't call is because he knows you'll call him first. Think about it!
2006-06-26 05:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Beauty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we is in the same boat my lover and i had a couple of fights the first time i started issing him snd called him back the next day then the second time he started missing me and call me back that night i think its normal to break uo to make up thats all it is i think it makes the relationship stronger well for us it did so if you miss him call him as much as you want cause i know how you feel you will feel a whole lot better when yall having a 3 hour phone conversation and at the end he tells you he will be over there in a minute
2006-06-26 05:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by meckadance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a relationship becomes complicated and is no longer fun it's time to move on. Your love doesn't call you first because you probably never gave him a chance. Having a relationship with someone who is predictable and clingy is so suffocating! How can he possibly miss and appreciate you when you're always around and you don't have a life without him?
2006-06-26 06:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky situation. Actually u r running in a phase where both of u r not sure about each other. Actually u should call him, till he says dont call or tell him to call always because u have many problem.s
2006-06-26 05:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen guys get this high whenthey see a girl is obsessed with him
but they like chasing
so let him go if he loves u he will definately come back to u only
dont show him how desperate ur for him just let him be n dnt call him up i know it is tough but u have to do it if u wanna make him realise ur importance
all the best n hope he definately calls u back
2006-06-26 05:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend , i do not know you and i don't know any thing about your relation. but i am a girl and i married 5 years ago with my boyfriend.
i can tell you just somthing "if your love, love you enough, he will call you", so i think you should give him a chanse to feel your love in his heart. let him to miss you.
Regards.
ayat
2006-06-26 06:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by ayat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't matter who calls who first...when you love someone...you should be ready to be humble and understanding. Sometimes wait awhile though just to test if he really cares that much for you too....make sure all the effort doesn't go to waste.Hope you'll feel better.
2006-06-26 05:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. it happens with me as well. being stuborn as well helps.
i sometimes send him a mail, just saying goodmorning. he replies and we start talking from there.
there's nothing wrong with being the first to speak, i know if i wait, ill wait forever. call him or send him a msg, u will feel better.
2006-06-26 05:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus stop all this nonsense n enjoy ur life in this stage. after this u've got lot more in life to b depressed. so jus forget everythin....... n be cool!
2006-06-26 05:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋